{"podcast":{"title":"Feminist Wellness","slug":"feminist-wellness-15519","podcast_index_feed_id":15519,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/feminist-wellness/","website_url":"https://beatrizalbina.com/podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/a7586ad9-3301-41e7-82b3-5666835690fe/-hV1YQpPtas-bb50LBxFAVDp.jpg","author":"Béa Victoria Albina","episode_count":444,"summary":"You weren't born anxious, depleted, and second-guessing yourself. You were taught to be. The Feminist Wellness podcast is where nervous system science meets the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most of what you think is \"self-care\" is just performing wellness while your body stays stuck in survival mode. Host Béa Victoria Albina - NP, life coach, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner - breaks down the codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits that keep you trapped in what she calls Emotional Outsourcing™: constantly looking outside yourself for permission, validation, and proof that you're enough. This isn't another show about bubble baths and boundaries. It's about understanding why your body says yes when you mean no, why rest feels impossible, and how to stop treating your own needs like an inconvenience. If you're done white-knuckling your way through life, performing okayness while feeling like you're constantly failing some invisible test, this show will help you see what's actually happening - and what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to please everyone else. New episodes weekly. Start anywhere.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-23T14:21:04.766597+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #376: How to Assess if Your Relationships Truly Serve You","slug":"ep-376-how-to-assess-if-your-relationships-truly-serve-you","published_at":"2026-04-30T05:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519/ep-376-how-to-assess-if-your-relationships-truly-serve-you","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519","url":"https://beatrizalbina.com/assess-if-relationships-serve-you/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/39343834-154d-4dfd-876b-924aa96e65b7.mp3","summary":"#376: Have you ever found yourself staying in a relationship out of obligation, fear, or guilt… only to feel exhausted and unfulfilled? If you’ve struggled to assess whether a relationship is truly serving you or draining you, this episode is for you. For recovering emotional outsourcers, the idea of reassessing our connections can feel like an act of betrayal or failure. But in this episode, I’m challenging that narrative by reframing the evaluation of our relationships as a profound act of self-care and a necessity for living an authentic life. Whether it’s a job, a friendship, or even familial dynamics, I guide you through a process of self-reflection, so you can honor your needs and make empowered choices around your relationships. You’ll learn practical steps to assess whether a connection is truly serving you, how to manage boundaries with love, and how to take a compassionate approach to releasing what no longer supports your highest good. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/376 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Join Nervous System Signals and Safety! You understand your anxiety. You can name your triggers, trace them back, explain the whole thing. And your body still does what it does - the freeze, the brace, the exhaustion that has nothing to do with how much you slept. Working at the level where the pattern actually lives - your nervous system, your physiology - is what changes it. Signals & Safety is 12 weeks of somatic education and practice built from 20+ years of clinical training. You come out knowing why your body responds the way it does, and with the tools…","meta_description":"#376: Have you ever found yourself staying in a relationship out of obligation, fear, or guilt… only to feel exhausted and unfulfilled? If you’ve struggle…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1778,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminist-wellness-15519/episodes/ep-376-how-to-assess-if-your-relationships-truly-serve-you/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519/ep-376-how-to-assess-if-your-relationships-truly-serve-you.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}