{"podcast":{"title":"Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee","slug":"feel-better-live-more-with-dr-rangan-chatterjee-790970","podcast_index_feed_id":790970,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/feelbetterlivemore","website_url":"https://drchatterjee.com/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/74eb8b80-5408-11ef-814b-e74273e559bf/image/f2972860d113de1034745a6e71205964.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Dr Rangan Chatterjee","episode_count":677,"summary":"“Health has become overcomplicated. I aim to simplify it” In this podcast, we hear stories from leading health experts and exciting personalities who offer easy health life-hacks, expert advice and debunk common health myths giving you the tools to revolutionise how you eat, sleep, move and relax. Hosted by Dr Chatterjee - one of the most influential GPs in the country with nearly 20 years experience, star of BBC 1’s Doctor In the House, and author of 6 internationally best-selling books, including ‘The 4 Pillar Plan’ – Feel Better, Live More aims to inspire, empower and transform the way we feel. When we are healthier, we are happier because when we feel better, we live more. Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. https://www.drchatterjee.com/podcast https://www.instagram.com/drchatterjee https://www.twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk https://www.facebook.com/DrChatterjee","last_synced_at":"2026-09-23T22:22:34.846355+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feel-better-live-more-with-dr-rangan-chatterjee-790970"},"episode":{"title":"How To Have More Meaningful & Intimate Relationships: A Fresh Approach That Really Works with Terry Real #679","slug":"how-to-have-more-meaningful-intimate-relationships-a-fresh-approach-that-really-works-with-terry-real-679","published_at":"2026-09-15T23:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feel-better-live-more-with-dr-rangan-chatterjee-790970/how-to-have-more-meaningful-intimate-relationships-a-fresh-approach-that-really-works-with-terry-real-679","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feel-better-live-more-with-dr-rangan-chatterjee-790970","url":"https://drchatterjee.com/679⁠","audio_url":"https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/p6315/traffic.megaphone.fm/VAOGC5590412814.mp3","summary":"If there were a health marker guaranteed to shape your happiness, your health and your children’s wellbeing, wouldn’t you want to optimise it? According to today’s guest there is: your relationships. And in this episode, the world-renowned couples’ therapist Terry Real reveals the one skill he believes matters more than any other for lasting love – while showing you exactly how to use it. Nicknamed ‘the turnaround guy’, Terry has spent decades helping couples who’ve tried it all find their way back to connection. His latest bestseller Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, features a foreword from one-such happy customer, Bruce Springsteen. Terry’s unconventional yet hugely successful approach, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), has trained thousands of therapists worldwide. He believes a good therapist should take sides, and that lasting change often means helping someone come down from grandiosity, not just raising them up from shame. This is one of those conversations that blends big, new ideas with nuggets of advice you’ll be itching to put into practice. We discuss how expectations of love and romance have changed over the generations – and why so many of us are trying to build modern, intimate partnerships using skills we were never actually taught. And Terry explains why the real measure of a strong relationship isn’t how rarely you argue, but which of your ‘three selves’ you use to do it. He introduces the idea of the adaptive child, an old survival pattern that hijacks our behaviour the moment we feel threatened, and explains how learning to recognise it can transform the way we handle conflict. We also discuss the patriarchy and the need to move beyond it for humankind – but this is not about blaming men or women, rather showing how both…","meta_description":"If there were a health marker guaranteed to shape your happiness, your health and your children’s wellbeing, wouldn’t you want to optimise it? 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