{"podcast":{"title":"Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast","slug":"everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108","podcast_index_feed_id":6752108,"rss_url":"https://feeds.simplecast.com/prFhjice","website_url":"https://www.everythingandanythingpodcast.com/","image_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/732965a8-b75c-4c2b-9803-1411be48134d/0edaafe4-e169-4638-b901-8d28ef02b3aa/3000x3000/3000x3000.jpg?aid=rss_feed","author":"Zach Randles-Friedman","episode_count":272,"summary":"Queer-hosted and unapologetically curious. We cover everything and anything — and yes, it's a bit gay.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-20T16:20:08.229018+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108"},"episode":{"title":"Ep. 248: Dating, Ghosting & Found Family: A Girl and a Gay on Real Modern Love","slug":"ep-248-dating-ghosting-found-family-a-girl-and-a-gay-on-real-modern-love","published_at":"2026-06-23T08:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108/ep-248-dating-ghosting-found-family-a-girl-and-a-gay-on-real-modern-love","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108","url":"https://www.listenupgirl.com/","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/afp-939909-injected.calisto.simplecastaudio.com/cfe1ea8e-7d0f-47dc-a4ba-305ba19ff04f/episodes/89cec055-32aa-47d3-93ea-2dce87827e92/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=cfe1ea8e-7d0f-47dc-a4ba-305ba19ff04f&awEpisodeId=89cec055-32aa-47d3-93ea-2dce87827e92&feed=prFhjice","summary":"Zach sits down with Jacqueline and Japheth — the dynamic duo behind TikTok's \"A Girl and a Gay\" — for a conversation that goes way deeper than dating advice. From how they found each other at a Nashville party to why ghosting is psychologically damaging, navigating the gay dating scene in a red state, chosen family, skincare secrets, and what it's really like to be a gay man in Nashville when anti-LGBTQ+ legislation keeps creeping in. Plus: catfishing, love bombing, moving from the big city to the South, and the real reason visibility matters. If you've ever had your heart broken by a disappearing act, struggled to make new friends as an adult, or wondered what it's like to build a community where you're outnumbered — this one's for you. Connect with Jacqueline & Japheth: TikTok: @agirlAndAGay (combined account) https://www.tiktok.com/@a.girl.and.a.gay Plus their individual TikTok and Instagram accounts — https://www.tiktok.com/@japhethfranco https://www.tiktok.com/@itsjacqs https://www.instagram.com/japheth__franco/ 🔔 Subscribe | ⭐ Rate & Review | 📲 Share this episode","meta_description":"Zach sits down with Jacqueline and Japheth — the dynamic duo behind TikTok's \"A Girl and a Gay\" — for a conversation that goes way deeper than dating advi…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3035,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108/episodes/ep-248-dating-ghosting-found-family-a-girl-and-a-gay-on-real-modern-love/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108/ep-248-dating-ghosting-found-family-a-girl-and-a-gay-on-real-modern-love.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}