{"podcast":{"title":"Enneagram and Marriage","slug":"enneagram-and-marriage-23336","podcast_index_feed_id":23336,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/enneagramandmarriage","website_url":"http://enneagramandmarriage.libsyn.com/website","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/3ef90420-dd5d-11ee-9d73-fbe6e8e99849/image/88a828a379afc57ec08a93007652dc94.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Christa Hardin, MA","episode_count":598,"summary":"The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-20T12:20:48.378224+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage-23336"},"episode":{"title":"What to Do When Sharing Backfires: Emotional Processing Containers","slug":"what-to-do-when-sharing-backfires-emotional-processing-containers","published_at":"2026-06-17T06:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage-23336/what-to-do-when-sharing-backfires-emotional-processing-containers","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage-23336","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CHRTDY7116616738.mp3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CHRTDY7116616738.mp3","summary":"When you finally open up and say the vulnerable thing that needed to be said and shared, what next? Often, your spouse gets defensive, shuts down, or fires back, and now you're less likely to ever share again. This is one of the most common and heartbreaking cycles in marriage: vulnerability that backfires actually creates MORE hiding, not less. In this episode of the Summer of Intimacy series, Christa introduces the concept of emotional processing containers - structures that protect vulnerability so that sharing actually leads to connection instead of more hurt, so you can create a marriage where both of you feel safe enough to keep showing up and delighting in your live and shared light. For every Enneagram type, in every season of marriage, this episode will give you practical tools to make vulnerability work, even after a hard start. Listen here to this hope-filled message! Watch on YouTube! Show notes:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Get on the waitlist so you can get info about our Awakening Intimacy Intensive!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get your E + M Love Map Questions Freebie here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Stay tuned for our Summer Intensives, Awakening Intimacy (track 1) and Awakening Adventure (track 2) beginning the week of July 13! Scroll down on our podcast page to find episodes on intimacy ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/pod Find more about your type, the pod, freebies, and SO much more at our website right here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.EnneagramandMarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","meta_description":"When you finally open up and say the vulnerable thing that needed to be said and shared, what next? Often, your spouse gets defensive, shuts down, or fire…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":989,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/enneagram-and-marriage-23336/episodes/what-to-do-when-sharing-backfires-emotional-processing-containers/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage-23336/what-to-do-when-sharing-backfires-emotional-processing-containers.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}