{"podcast":{"title":"Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help for Behavior, Anxiety, ADHD and More","slug":"dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","podcast_index_feed_id":5936360,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/its-gonna-be-ok/","website_url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/be1bbf66-dc95-4746-96ef-2c8b7dd85982/ELEMENTS.jpg","author":"Dr. Roseann Capanna Hodge","episode_count":442,"summary":"Are you tired of the daily battles, the problems with listening and focus, meltdowns over minor frustrations, and the constant feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home? If you're a parent who feels overwhelmed, stuck in a cycle of reactivity, and utterly exhausted from trying to manage your child's challenging behaviors, you are not alone. You've tried everything—the sticker charts, the timeouts, the endless negotiations—but nothing creates lasting change. The answer isn't more discipline. The secret is understanding the brain. Welcome to Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help, the podcast that is revolutionizing the way we parent. Hosted by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, a licensed therapist, school psychologist and author with over 30 years of experience in children's mental health and recognized by Forbes as a thought leader in children's mental health, this podcast is your lifeline. Dr. Roseann pulls back the curtain on why your child or teen is struggling, whether they have a clinical diagnosis like ADHD, Anxiety, Autism, OCD, Depression, Dyslexia, Executive Functioning challenges, Lyme, or PANS/PANDAS, or are simply navigating the ups and downs of everyday life…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-07T14:18:46.529242+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360"},"episode":{"title":"Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Your Strong-Willed Child | Regulation First Parenting® | E417","slug":"why-gentle-parenting-isn-t-working-for-your-strong-willed-child-regulation-first-parenting-e417","published_at":"2026-06-17T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360/why-gentle-parenting-isn-t-working-for-your-strong-willed-child-regulation-first-parenting-e417","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2701da85-5eab-4901-b3c8-073a2e5b2118.mp3","summary":"If you’re wondering why gentle parenting isn’t working for your strong-willed child, you’re not alone. When a child’s brain is dysregulated, strategies fall flat—Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge shows how Regulation First Parenting™ changes behavior by calming the nervous system first. You’re staying calm, explaining, validating—and still, your child pushes back harder. If you feel stuck, you’re not alone. This episode breaks down why gentle parenting isn’t landing and what actually works when your child’s nervous system is dysregulated. Why does gentle parenting not work for my strong-willed child? Here’s the truth: it’s not bad parenting—it’s a dysregulated brain. Gentle parenting works beautifully when a child is regulated and can access their thinking brain. But when your child is escalated? Their thinking brain goes offline Logic and explanations don’t land It’s not that they won’t—they can’t You’re speaking to a brain that isn’t available. Example: You calmly explain why your child needs to turn off the iPad. Instead of cooperating, they argue, yell, or ignore you. It’s not defiance—it’s dysregulation . Why does my child argue, ignore me, or escalate when I stay calm? Because calm words alone don’t regulate a dysregulated nervous system. When your child pushes back, they’re often in: Fight mode (arguing, controlling, defying) Flight mode (avoiding, shutting down) In that state: Reasoning feels like pressure Correction feels like threat Their system defends—even harder Strong-willed kids? Dig in deeper Escalate faster Fight longer That intensity isn’t a flaw—it’s a nervous system under stress. When your child is dysregulated, it’s easy to feel helpless. The Regulation Rescue Kit gives you the scripts and strategies you need to stay grounded and in control. Become a Dysre…","meta_description":"If you’re wondering why gentle parenting isn’t working for your strong-willed child, you’re not alone. 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