{"podcast":{"title":"Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help for Behavior, Anxiety, ADHD and More","slug":"dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","podcast_index_feed_id":5936360,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/its-gonna-be-ok/","website_url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/be1bbf66-dc95-4746-96ef-2c8b7dd85982/ELEMENTS.jpg","author":"Dr. Roseann Capanna Hodge","episode_count":442,"summary":"Are you tired of the daily battles, the problems with listening and focus, meltdowns over minor frustrations, and the constant feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home? If you're a parent who feels overwhelmed, stuck in a cycle of reactivity, and utterly exhausted from trying to manage your child's challenging behaviors, you are not alone. You've tried everything—the sticker charts, the timeouts, the endless negotiations—but nothing creates lasting change. The answer isn't more discipline. The secret is understanding the brain. Welcome to Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help, the podcast that is revolutionizing the way we parent. Hosted by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, a licensed therapist, school psychologist and author with over 30 years of experience in children's mental health and recognized by Forbes as a thought leader in children's mental health, this podcast is your lifeline. Dr. Roseann pulls back the curtain on why your child or teen is struggling, whether they have a clinical diagnosis like ADHD, Anxiety, Autism, OCD, Depression, Dyslexia, Executive Functioning challenges, Lyme, or PANS/PANDAS, or are simply navigating the ups and downs of everyday life…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-07T14:18:46.529242+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360"},"episode":{"title":"The 3-Second Pause That Stops You From Escalating | Co-Regulation Parenting | E424","slug":"the-3-second-pause-that-stops-you-from-escalating-co-regulation-parenting-e424","published_at":"2026-07-13T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360/the-3-second-pause-that-stops-you-from-escalating-co-regulation-parenting-e424","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/0f159926-f589-49af-913d-849b9d4eba79.mp3","summary":"The 3-second pause that stops you from escalating helps parents pause, regulate, and respond instead of react. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge is a pediatric mental health expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and emotional dysregulation, helping parents build calm, regulated homes. Parenting rarely falls apart in big moments—it falls apart in the three seconds after your child pushes back, yells, or refuses. That instant surge is where escalation begins. In this episode, you’ll learn how a simple pause—the love pause —can interrupt reactivity and help parents shift from chaos to calm. Why do I escalate so fast when my child pushes back? That sudden “red zone” reaction isn’t bad parenting—it’s biology. Your nervous system is designed to react fast when it senses a threat, even if that “threat” is your child yelling or slamming a door. What’s happening in those seconds: Your nervous system fires first, thinking there’s danger Your thinking brain goes offline temporarily You shift into automatic reaction mode without choice Remember: Escalation doesn’t start with what you say—it starts with how fast you react. What is the 3-second “love pause” and how does it work? The love pause is a simple interruption between trigger and reaction. It gives your brain just enough space to come back online before you respond. In those three seconds, you can: Take a slow breath to reset your body Use a grounding phrase like “this too will pass” Choose silence instead of immediate reaction It’s not about perfection—it’s about creating space where choice returns . And that space is where regulation begins. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works… Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment. 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