{"podcast":{"title":"Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help for Behavior, Anxiety, ADHD and More","slug":"dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","podcast_index_feed_id":5936360,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/its-gonna-be-ok/","website_url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/be1bbf66-dc95-4746-96ef-2c8b7dd85982/ELEMENTS.jpg","author":"Dr. Roseann Capanna Hodge","episode_count":442,"summary":"Are you tired of the daily battles, the problems with listening and focus, meltdowns over minor frustrations, and the constant feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home? If you're a parent who feels overwhelmed, stuck in a cycle of reactivity, and utterly exhausted from trying to manage your child's challenging behaviors, you are not alone. You've tried everything—the sticker charts, the timeouts, the endless negotiations—but nothing creates lasting change. The answer isn't more discipline. The secret is understanding the brain. Welcome to Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help, the podcast that is revolutionizing the way we parent. Hosted by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, a licensed therapist, school psychologist and author with over 30 years of experience in children's mental health and recognized by Forbes as a thought leader in children's mental health, this podcast is your lifeline. Dr. Roseann pulls back the curtain on why your child or teen is struggling, whether they have a clinical diagnosis like ADHD, Anxiety, Autism, OCD, Depression, Dyslexia, Executive Functioning challenges, Lyme, or PANS/PANDAS, or are simply navigating the ups and downs of everyday life…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-07T14:18:46.529242+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360"},"episode":{"title":"Regulate. Connect. Correct.™: The Parenting Order That Works | Regulation First Parenting® | E428","slug":"regulate-connect-correct-the-parenting-order-that-works-regulation-first-parenting-e428","published_at":"2026-07-27T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360/regulate-connect-correct-the-parenting-order-that-works-regulation-first-parenting-e428","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dysregulated-kids-science-backed-parenting-help-for-behavior-anxiety-adhd-and-more-5936360","url":"https://drroseann.com/podcast/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/90c8307e-2375-4132-8a54-ac2302bcbb5a.mp3","summary":"Parents often correct behavior before calming the brain—and that's why it backfires. Discover the parenting order that works and learn how small changes in timing can reduce power struggles and build cooperation. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™, helps families understand emotional dysregulation so lasting change can begin. If every request seems to turn into an argument, you're not alone. The parenting order that works can transform how you respond to your child's biggest meltdowns by helping you stop power struggles before they spiral. Why does my child get more upset when I correct them during a meltdown? When your child is dysregulated, their nervous system is in survival mode. They're not refusing to listen because they're stubborn—they simply can't access the thinking part of their brain yet. Behavior is communication. That's why correcting, lecturing, or adding consequences in the middle of an emotional storm usually makes things worse instead of better. Key takeaways: A dysregulated brain can't learn new lessons. Correction during a meltdown increases resistance. Calming the brain must come first. Real-life example: Imagine asking your child to start homework. They yell, slam the door, and you respond with a stricter tone. Suddenly you're both escalating instead of solving the problem. Why do simple requests turn into huge power struggles? Many parents believe the problem is defiance. In reality, it's often timing . When both you and your child become emotionally activated, you're caught in a cycle of co-dysregulation. Neither nervous system is ready for learning, problem-solving, or cooperation. Instead of reacting: Pause before responding. Lower your voice instead of raising it. Say less, not more. Give both nervous systems ti…","meta_description":"Parents often correct behavior before calming the brain—and that's why it backfires. 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