{"podcast":{"title":"Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families","slug":"dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671","podcast_index_feed_id":49671,"rss_url":"https://www.omnycontent.com/d/playlist/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/b69b2795-5503-4de1-ac91-af460017906e/a05f1702-0c0e-4b0f-8014-af460017907c/podcast.rss","website_url":"https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/","image_url":"https://www.omnycontent.com/d/playlist/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/b69b2795-5503-4de1-ac91-af460017906e/a05f1702-0c0e-4b0f-8014-af460017907c/image.jpg?t=1739426251&size=Large","author":"Dr Justin Coulson","episode_count":1529,"summary":"The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-12T08:18:45.427734+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671"},"episode":{"title":"What Defiant & Non-Compliant Teens Actually Need (a Q&A)","slug":"what-defiant-non-compliant-teens-actually-need-a-q-a","published_at":"2026-05-04T19:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671/what-defiant-non-compliant-teens-actually-need-a-q-a","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671","url":"https://omny.fm/shows/dr-justin-coulsons-happy-families/what-defiant-non-compliant-teens-actually-need-a-q-a","audio_url":"https://mgln.ai/e/187/traffic.omny.fm/d/clips/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/b69b2795-5503-4de1-ac91-af460017906e/b1164c38-2ada-435c-98d8-b43400c69b9d/audio.mp3?utm_source=Podcast&in_playlist=a05f1702-0c0e-4b0f-8014-af460017907c","summary":"You’ve set the routines. Had the conversations. Tried the calm approach. But your child still ignores expectations, pushes back, and explodes when you call it out. What do you do when parenting feels like an endless cycle of nagging, conflict, and resentment? In this deeply honest episode, Justin and Kylie respond to a single mum struggling with her 13-year-old son’s non-compliance, screen battles, disrespect, and emotional shutdowns. They unpack why “calling out bad behaviour” often makes things worse, the hidden shame underneath teen defiance, and the simple mindset shift that can start rebuilding trust and cooperation at home. If you’re exhausted from feeling ignored, blamed, or stuck in constant conflict with your child, this episode will help you move from power struggles to connection. KEY POINTS: Why calling out bad behaviour often backfires The hidden shame driving teen defensiveness and rage How screens can fuel emotional withdrawal and conflict The trust question that changes difficult conversations Why collaboration only works when connection comes first A simple family conversation that builds buy-in instead of resistance How to break the cycle of nagging, resentment, and shutdowns QUOTE OF THE EPISODE: “Stop trying to control your child into compliance. Start getting curious instead.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: Boys by Dr Justin Coulson ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Stop “calling out” behaviour in the heat of the moment Ask your child what they want your home to feel like Focus on rebuilding trust before solving problems Listen without correcting or defending yourself Work together on solutions instead of enforcing control Celebrate small moments of connection and progress See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy…","meta_description":"You’ve set the routines. Had the conversations. Tried the calm approach. But your child still ignores expectations, pushes back, and explodes when y…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":853,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671/episodes/what-defiant-non-compliant-teens-actually-need-a-q-a/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671/what-defiant-non-compliant-teens-actually-need-a-q-a.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}