{"podcast":{"title":"Don’t Scare the Newbies!","slug":"don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110","podcast_index_feed_id":7462110,"rss_url":"https://media.rss.com/don-t-scare-the-newbies/feed.xml","website_url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies","image_url":"https://media.rss.com/don-t-scare-the-newbies/20250717_120730_c720663fc1ec87f4cc8270924ac0f7b8.png","author":"kirizal & S","episode_count":42,"summary":"Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between. Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com Support U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies Vote for U/us in The Alternative Awards by liking this Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DTdI0ZZDGlw/?igsh=bDhweDh6aDl1MW45","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110"},"episode":{"title":"The Jalapenos on the Nachos: Degradation and Humiliation","slug":"the-jalapenos-on-the-nachos-degradation-and-humiliation","published_at":"2026-04-08T04:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/the-jalapenos-on-the-nachos-degradation-and-humiliation","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110","url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies/2680485","audio_url":"https://content.rss.com/episodes/333286/2680485/don-t-scare-the-newbies/2026_04_01_14_28_07_e8626bf3-7042-4a36-bbb2-9183fd199dec.mp3","summary":"In this episode, Mx and kirizal dig into shame, objectification, worthlessness, and all the messy emotions of degradation and humiliation. How these kinks can enhance O/our play, why they turn U/us on, and a deep dive into trauma play, body shaming, verbal degradation and humiliation, and \"the umbrella of gross kinks\". Plus - kirizal's journey into emotional masochism, negotiation and aftercare skills, and Mx discovers that kirizal doesn't know how to burp. Content Note: This episode covers some heavy topics and common 'icks' throughout, in detail. Misogynistic and fatphobic language, mentions of transphobia play, child abuse, and CNC. More detailed discussion of bodily fluids including spit, vomit, piss, and scat, as well as body image, dysmorphia, and weight loss. For more education on emotional sadomasochism, W/we recommend Vahavta whose work can be found at kinkbeyondlimits.com Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com Support U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies","meta_description":"In this episode, Mx and kirizal dig into shame, objectification, worthlessness, and all the messy emotions of degradation and humiliation. How these kinks…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":5221,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/episodes/the-jalapenos-on-the-nachos-degradation-and-humiliation/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/the-jalapenos-on-the-nachos-degradation-and-humiliation.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}