{"podcast":{"title":"Don’t Scare the Newbies!","slug":"don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110","podcast_index_feed_id":7462110,"rss_url":"https://media.rss.com/don-t-scare-the-newbies/feed.xml","website_url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies","image_url":"https://media.rss.com/don-t-scare-the-newbies/20250717_120730_c720663fc1ec87f4cc8270924ac0f7b8.png","author":"kirizal & S","episode_count":42,"summary":"Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between. Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com Support U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies Vote for U/us in The Alternative Awards by liking this Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DTdI0ZZDGlw/?igsh=bDhweDh6aDl1MW45","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110"},"episode":{"title":"Authentically Deviant: Secretary","slug":"authentically-deviant-secretary","published_at":"2026-03-11T05:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/authentically-deviant-secretary","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110","url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies/2616811","audio_url":"https://content.rss.com/episodes/333286/2616811/don-t-scare-the-newbies/2026_03_10_15_14_07_2404e56e-b696-47ee-a48f-80ed14f71c41.mp3","summary":"Time for another kinky movie, and this time it’s Secretary. kirizal and S talk about relatability in awkwardness, agency in submission, and the joy in seeing kink on screen represented as genuinely perverse and unpolished. Plus - masochism and self harm, neurodivergence in kink, and W/we find out if kirizal can read out a movie quote without crying. Content Note: Spoilers for Secretary throughout, detailed discussion of self harm both in the movie and personal experience, discussion of consent issues including coercion and sexual harassment. The movie also includes a scene of domestic violence - which W/we don’t discuss in detail but do briefly reference. There was a slight buzzing interference issue on this recording - hopefully not too troublesome and nothing like the chaos with the old mics! The upcoming episodes W/we’ve done so far are all clear so shouldn’t hear it again anytime soon (hopefully ever!) Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com Support U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies Vote for U/us in The Alternative Awards by liking this Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DTdI0ZZDGlw/?igsh=bDhweDh6aDl1MW45","meta_description":"Time for another kinky movie, and this time it’s Secretary. kirizal and S talk about relatability in awkwardness, agency in submission, and the joy in see…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4700,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/episodes/authentically-deviant-secretary/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/don-t-scare-the-newbies-7462110/authentically-deviant-secretary.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}