{"podcast":{"title":"Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.","slug":"doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","podcast_index_feed_id":5614621,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf","website_url":"https://wantingitmorepodcast.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/2430bda3-d710-43e1-b132-005ee216da58.jpg","author":"Janna Denton-Howes","episode_count":188,"summary":"Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-18T02:17:19.480866+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621"},"episode":{"title":"Why Sex Often Doesn't Feel Good For Women | Ep. 173","slug":"why-sex-often-doesn-t-feel-good-for-women-ep-173","published_at":"2025-12-09T19:06:09+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-sex-often-doesn-t-feel-good-for-women-ep-173","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/f0de8487-61e6-41aa-bb83-1a0a490e25f0.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/f0de8487-61e6-41aa-bb83-1a0a490e25f0.mp3","summary":"The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about. But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals and orgasms felt impossibly difficult because we are all trying to approach them like men’s?  This is what we discussed on the podcast this week- sharing openly our current challenges with my partner learning my body as well as the common feeling amongst women that we don’t work properly or that we’re broken. And to make it practical, we also included some basic concepts to understand when approaching the clitoris. We didn’t hold anything back in this 30 minute episode and I hope you can find a quiet, private moment to join the conversation. Looking for where to start? Get Janna's Intro Videos for men and women. Ready to learn more? Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Ready to learn as a couple? Get all the details about Janna's coaching program for couples, Doing It Together . Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026.","meta_description":"The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about. But w…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1962,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/episodes/why-sex-often-doesn-t-feel-good-for-women-ep-173/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-sex-often-doesn-t-feel-good-for-women-ep-173.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}