{"podcast":{"title":"Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.","slug":"doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","podcast_index_feed_id":5614621,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf","website_url":"https://wantingitmorepodcast.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/2430bda3-d710-43e1-b132-005ee216da58.jpg","author":"Janna Denton-Howes","episode_count":188,"summary":"Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-18T02:17:19.480866+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621"},"episode":{"title":"The Hidden Reason Sex Started Feeling Unsafe - with Erica | Ep. 192","slug":"the-hidden-reason-sex-started-feeling-unsafe-with-erica-ep-192","published_at":"2026-05-13T15:07:45+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/the-hidden-reason-sex-started-feeling-unsafe-with-erica-ep-192","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/7fbc9040-9a09-4858-8bfd-7df02912a434.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/7fbc9040-9a09-4858-8bfd-7df02912a434.mp3","summary":"What if the problem in your sex life isn’t low libido… but the pressure, expectations, and conditioning you’ve been carrying for years? In this conversation, Erica shares how she spent years believing she was broken, trying everything from therapy to self-help advice to “fix” her lack of desire — only to discover that the real issue had far more to do with safety, pressure, and the scripts women are taught about sex and relationships. Together, Erica and Janna unpack the messages many women grow up with around sex, marriage, motherhood, and obligation, and explore what begins to shift when couples stop focusing on performance and start building experiences rooted in curiosity, comfort, and connection. Looking for where to start? Get Janna's Intro Videos for men and women. Ready to learn more? Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Ready to learn as a couple? Get all the details about Janna's coaching program for couples, Doing It Together . Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026.","meta_description":"What if the problem in your sex life isn’t low libido… but the pressure, expectations, and conditioning you’ve been carrying for years? In this conversati…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2896,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/episodes/the-hidden-reason-sex-started-feeling-unsafe-with-erica-ep-192/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/the-hidden-reason-sex-started-feeling-unsafe-with-erica-ep-192.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}