{"podcast":{"title":"Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.","slug":"doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","podcast_index_feed_id":5614621,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf","website_url":"https://wantingitmorepodcast.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/2430bda3-d710-43e1-b132-005ee216da58.jpg","author":"Janna Denton-Howes","episode_count":188,"summary":"Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-18T02:17:19.480866+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621"},"episode":{"title":"Mutual Vulnerability for a Better Sex Life | Ep. 185","slug":"mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-185","published_at":"2026-03-11T13:00:20+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-185","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/f7ac9248-de9c-4c2d-9e5e-8415b34dc8f4.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/f7ac9248-de9c-4c2d-9e5e-8415b34dc8f4.mp3","summary":"When a couple can meet each other with non-judgmental empathy, it draws you closer to each other. Nobody is shamed, questioned or put down and it leads to a deeper intimacy. This is the power of mutual vulnerability and it’s one of the bedrocks of a healthy marriage (and sex life). But most people don’t do a very good job at it! (which makes sense- who taught us how???) In today’s podcast episode, my husband and I explored this topic, sharing what we were taught about vulnerability, offering a role-play of what to do (and not to do), and practical tips on responding to vulnerability effectively. If you thought new sex positions were the key to hot sex, think again! Mutual vulnerability leads to safety and you can’t get sexier than safety! I hope you enjoy this feel-good episode 🙂 Looking for where to start? Get Janna's Intro Videos for men and women. Ready to learn more? Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Ready to learn as a couple? Get all the details about Janna's coaching program for couples, Doing It Together . Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026.","meta_description":"When a couple can meet each other with non-judgmental empathy, it draws you closer to each other. Nobody is shamed, questioned or put down and it leads to…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2831,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/episodes/mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-185/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-185.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}