{"podcast":{"title":"Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.","slug":"doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","podcast_index_feed_id":5614621,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf","website_url":"https://wantingitmorepodcast.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/2430bda3-d710-43e1-b132-005ee216da58.jpg","author":"Janna Denton-Howes","episode_count":188,"summary":"Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-18T02:17:19.480866+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621"},"episode":{"title":"Mutual Attunement for a Better Sex Life | Ep. 197","slug":"mutual-attunement-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-197","published_at":"2026-06-17T12:00:33+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-attunement-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-197","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/9e593a08-a02e-431c-bcba-763463e6b1bd.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/9e593a08-a02e-431c-bcba-763463e6b1bd.mp3","summary":"What if one of the keys to a more connected relationship isn't communicating better—but paying closer attention? In this episode, Janna and her husband pull back the curtain on a practice they've been intentionally developing in their marriage: attunement. Rather than waiting for your partner to tell you exactly what they need, attunement is the skill of noticing, anticipating, and staying emotionally connected to their inner world. Together, they explore why women are often socialized to be more attuned than men, how this dynamic can impact relationships, and the practical ways they're learning to think about and care for each other throughout the day. From feeling more seen and understood to creating deeper emotional and sexual connection, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on what it means to truly know and support your partner. Listen to Part 1 of this series here: https://jannadentonhowes.com/185-mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life/ Looking for where to start? Get Janna's Intro Videos for men and women. Ready to learn more? Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Ready to learn as a couple? Get all the details about Janna's coaching program for couples, Doing It Together . Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026.","meta_description":"What if one of the keys to a more connected relationship isn't communicating better—but paying closer attention? In this episode, Janna and her husband pu…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2040,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/episodes/mutual-attunement-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-197/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-attunement-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-197.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}