{"podcast":{"title":"Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.","slug":"doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","podcast_index_feed_id":5614621,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf","website_url":"https://wantingitmorepodcast.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/2430bda3-d710-43e1-b132-005ee216da58.jpg","author":"Janna Denton-Howes","episode_count":198,"summary":"Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T02:17:19.843659+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621"},"episode":{"title":"\"Almost Never”: What This Husband Learned About Their Sex Life - with Ben | Ep. 206","slug":"almost-never-what-this-husband-learned-about-their-sex-life-with-ben-ep-206","published_at":"2026-08-26T12:00:37+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/almost-never-what-this-husband-learned-about-their-sex-life-with-ben-ep-206","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/496ee1e5-e9e2-4e05-9578-fde3117b2e92.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/UqXyMlH7jf/496ee1e5-e9e2-4e05-9578-fde3117b2e92.mp3","summary":"When Ben asked his wife of 31 years how often she actually wanted to have sex, her answer — “almost never” — completely shocked him. In this conversation, Ben shares what he couldn’t see before Doing It Together, what happened when he chose curiosity over defensiveness, and how he’s learning to create a more mutually enjoyable intimate life with his wife. It’s an honest conversation about good intentions, unexpected blind spots, and what can happen when both partners are willing to keep learning. Sign up for Janna's free class , \" The Truth About Women's Libido: Why Everything You've Tried Hasn't Worked and What To Do Instead.\" Watch the class as a couple or on your own. Classes happen on Sept. 21 and 22. Ready to learn as a couple? Registration is open for Janna's coaching program for couples, Doing It Together . Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026. Deadline to register is Sept. 29. Looking for where to start? Get Janna's Intro Videos for men and women. Ready to learn on your own? Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration.","meta_description":"When Ben asked his wife of 31 years how often she actually wanted to have sex, her answer — “almost never” — completely shocked him. In this conversation,…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2288,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/episodes/almost-never-what-this-husband-learned-about-their-sex-life-with-ben-ep-206/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/almost-never-what-this-husband-learned-about-their-sex-life-with-ben-ep-206.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}