{"podcast":{"title":"Do As We Say, Not As They Did","slug":"do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812","podcast_index_feed_id":7726812,"rss_url":"https://feeds.libsyn.com/608340/rss","website_url":"https://sites.libsyn.com/608340","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/0/6/e/7/06e76851652d7cc4d959afa2a1bf1c87/do_as_we_say_logo.png","author":"Harris O'Malley","episode_count":27,"summary":"An unfiltered dating podcast all about love, sex, relationships, and all the ways humans are sometimes really bad at them. Dr. NerdLove and Dr. Liz Powell break down what not do, and what actually works.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-16T22:18:24.014668+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812"},"episode":{"title":"Do Women Actually Care About Load Size…or is it Just Other Men?","slug":"do-women-actually-care-about-load-size-or-is-it-just-other-men","published_at":"2026-04-08T09:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812/do-women-actually-care-about-load-size-or-is-it-just-other-men","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812","url":"https://bcddb042-54aa-4575-834d-8f65ebfb49f9.libsyn.com/do-women-actually-care-about-load-sizeor-is-it-just-other-men","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/bcddb042-54aa-4575-834d-8f65ebfb49f9/DAWS_Ep_5_Harris.mp3?dest-id=5300385","summary":"Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell talk about the men who really, really care about shooting ropes like Spider-Man. That's right. They're talking about nutmaxxers. Fueled by the fantasies of porn and a desire for self-optimization, these men might say their \"enhanced performance\" is for their partners, but Dr. Liz and Harris have their doubts. Highlights of the episode: Porn \"money shots\" aren't what you think Fast and Furious movies are a little like porn Having sex…with your balls?! 👀 If you're interested in staying blissfully unaware about the secret lives of nutmaxxers, turn away now, because things are about to get a little sticky. Time Stamps 0:00 – Intro bloopers & ADHD brains unite 2:00 – Why this podcast is pre-recorded 5:00 – Meet the Nutmaxxers: semen obsession & supplement culture 10:00 – Cum fetish vs. the unbearable cringe of this article 14:00 – Porn isn't real 20:00 – Male insecurity 26:00 – Fantasy vs. reality 34:00 – \"I don't want a gallon on my face\" 38:00 – Micropenises, oral skills, and redefining good sex 45:00 – Bad partners, poor communication, and load shame 52:00 – Actually useful advice 58:00 – Why men need to listen (and not just to each other) 1:06:00 – What's really sexy 1:12:00 – Final thoughts: Be a person, not a cum performance robot Stay Connected 📩 Business Inquiries: doaswesaypod@gmail.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doaswesaypod/ 💙 BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/doaswesaypod.bsky.social 🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/DoAsWeSayPod 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/doaswesaypod ⏰ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@DoAsWeSayPod","meta_description":"Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell t…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4874,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812/episodes/do-women-actually-care-about-load-size-or-is-it-just-other-men/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812/do-women-actually-care-about-load-size-or-is-it-just-other-men.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}