{"podcast":{"title":"Divorce Happens","slug":"divorce-happens-6931880","podcast_index_feed_id":6931880,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/divorce-happens/","website_url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4ef67130-0ef6-4ddc-8223-01a75a67ba34/show-cover.jpg","author":"Fresh Starts Registry","episode_count":299,"summary":"Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T04:24:06.385376+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880"},"episode":{"title":"The Quiet Divorce Plan Every Woman Needs Before She Says a Word with Amy Polacko","slug":"the-quiet-divorce-plan-every-woman-needs-before-she-says-a-word-with-amy-polacko","published_at":"2026-06-29T21:40:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/the-quiet-divorce-plan-every-woman-needs-before-she-says-a-word-with-amy-polacko","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880","url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c8ece54b-c6c1-4cd2-aa54-8bc756179516.mp3","summary":"Most women don’t wake up one morning and announce a divorce. They spend months — often years — in the quiet space of knowing, where a gut feeling won’t go away but guilt over the kids and fear about money keep the words stuck in their throat. In this candid, galvanizing episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell sits down with divorce coach and award-winning journalist Amy Polacko to talk about what to do in exactly that space: the quiet divorce plan every woman needs before she says a single word. Through the lens of Belle Burden’s viral memoir Strangers — the stay-at-home mom whose hedge-fund husband pulled the rug out from under her idyllic life — Amy and Olivia name a hard truth women are rarely warned about: the financial vulnerability that comes with building your life around someone else’s career. What makes Amy’s guidance land is that it is strategic without being cynical. Her north star for clients is simple and steadying: plan for the worst and work toward the best. You are not manipulative or evil for protecting yourself, she insists — you are being the CEO of your own divorce. The actionable heart of the episode is preparation you can begin quietly and safely: build your team before you announce anything, and start gathering your financial documents — tax returns, bank statements, retirement accounts, insurance policies, credit card statements, business records. Amy’s reporter instincts shine here. Even women experiencing financial abuse, who don’t control the accounts, know more than they think they know; jotting disparate details in a notebook (the old Fidelity account, the inheritance, the bank that “disappeared”) becomes powerful ammunition your attorney can pursue in discovery. And anything that touches moving money or assets, she’s clear, belongs in a…","meta_description":"Most women don’t wake up one morning and announce a divorce. They spend months — often years — in the quiet space of knowing, where a gut feeling won’t go…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":930,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/divorce-happens-6931880/episodes/the-quiet-divorce-plan-every-woman-needs-before-she-says-a-word-with-amy-polacko/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/the-quiet-divorce-plan-every-woman-needs-before-she-says-a-word-with-amy-polacko.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}