{"podcast":{"title":"Divorce Happens","slug":"divorce-happens-6931880","podcast_index_feed_id":6931880,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/divorce-happens/","website_url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4ef67130-0ef6-4ddc-8223-01a75a67ba34/show-cover.jpg","author":"Fresh Starts Registry","episode_count":254,"summary":"Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-16T10:17:32.089801+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880"},"episode":{"title":"Hey Olivia, There's No Villain in Our Divorce — So Why Does It Hurt This Much?","slug":"hey-olivia-there-s-no-villain-in-our-divorce-so-why-does-it-hurt-this-much","published_at":"2026-06-13T15:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/hey-olivia-there-s-no-villain-in-our-divorce-so-why-does-it-hurt-this-much","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880","url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3acbf4ac-ed1a-4452-a2fb-93b3c807bc2b.mp3","summary":"How do you heal from a divorce when there's no villain — when you both still love each other and simply grew apart? In this solo \"Hey Olivia\" episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell answers a letter from a listener ending a marriage with no betrayal, no blowup, and real care still between them. They share a child, they can still show up for each other, and she wants to know: how do you stay connected as co-parents while creating enough distance to actually heal? If you're grieving an amicable divorce that looks \"good\" on paper but still aches, this episode is for you. Olivia names what so few people say out loud: an amicable divorce can be one of the hardest versions there is, because the grief is quieter and lonelier when there's no anger to propel you forward. She offers a reframe that changes everything — you're not ending the relationship, you're changing its form — and walks through what healthy distance really means: not coldness, but structure. From \"business-warm\" co-parenting communication to protecting breathing room around the parts of life that aren't about your child, this is a tender, practical guide to mourning the marriage while building the new relationship that comes next. IN THIS EPISODE: Why an amicable divorce with love still in it can be harder, not easier, to grieve Giving yourself permission to mourn a \"good\" divorce no one else fully understands What's happening in your nervous system when closeness feels natural and also keeps the wound open The central reframe: you're not ending the relationship, you're changing its form Why grief and rightness can coexist — it's allowed to be sad even when it's the right call What healing distance actually means: structure, not coldness \"Business-warm\" co-parenting and using a shared calendar or co-parenti…","meta_description":"How do you heal from a divorce when there's no villain — when you both still love each other and simply grew apart? In this solo \"Hey Olivia\" episode of D…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":447,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/divorce-happens-6931880/episodes/hey-olivia-there-s-no-villain-in-our-divorce-so-why-does-it-hurt-this-much/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/hey-olivia-there-s-no-villain-in-our-divorce-so-why-does-it-hurt-this-much.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}