{"podcast":{"title":"Divorce Happens","slug":"divorce-happens-6931880","podcast_index_feed_id":6931880,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/divorce-happens/","website_url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4ef67130-0ef6-4ddc-8223-01a75a67ba34/show-cover.jpg","author":"Fresh Starts Registry","episode_count":299,"summary":"Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T04:24:06.385376+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880"},"episode":{"title":"Hey Olivia, I posted something on TikTok during an angry divorce spiral and now I regret it. Do I delete it?","slug":"hey-olivia-i-posted-something-on-tiktok-during-an-angry-divorce-spiral-and-now-i-regret-it-do-i-delete-it","published_at":"2026-09-09T14:05:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/hey-olivia-i-posted-something-on-tiktok-during-an-angry-divorce-spiral-and-now-i-regret-it-do-i-delete-it","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880","url":"https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/divorce-happens","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e0d15e68-dd88-46b1-b323-4da43c2f182a.mp3","summary":"\"I posted something on TikTok during an angry divorce spiral last night, mid-rant, feeling completely justified in the moment. This morning I woke up and read it back and felt sick.\" In this Hey Olivia listener letter episode, Olivia answers a question so many people have quietly lived through: what to do the morning after an emotional, regretted post during divorce. Olivia covers: Why posting in anger at midnight during divorce is a genuinely human response, not a sign something's wrong with you Why it's okay to simply delete a regretted post without overthinking the optics of the deletion itself Why deleting something isn't a confession of guilt or an admission of hiding anything When it's worth a quick, honest conversation with your attorney if you're in an active legal process Why screenshots can exist even after deletion, and what that means practically going forward How to build in a pause before posting during high-emotion moments — even just writing it in a notes app first Why you're allowed to have a private outlet to vent that isn't public: a trusted friend, a journal, a voice memo you never send \"One moment of oversharing doesn't define you, and it doesn't undo everything else you're doing to handle this whole process with genuine care.\" Need support navigating this? Fresh Starts offers free consults, a vetted professional network, and free guides. Learn more at freshstartsregistry.com. If this episode helped, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it today. 🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry: The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/ 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry 🎙 Podcast IG: http…","meta_description":"\"I posted something on TikTok during an angry divorce spiral last night, mid-rant, feeling completely justified in the moment. This morning I woke up and…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":335,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/divorce-happens-6931880/episodes/hey-olivia-i-posted-something-on-tiktok-during-an-angry-divorce-spiral-and-now-i-regret-it-do-i-delete-it/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-happens-6931880/hey-olivia-i-posted-something-on-tiktok-during-an-angry-divorce-spiral-and-now-i-regret-it-do-i-delete-it.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}