{"podcast":{"title":"Divorce and Separation","slug":"divorce-and-separation-4057803","podcast_index_feed_id":4057803,"rss_url":"https://thedivorceandseparationpodcast.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.divorceandseparationhub.com/podcast","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/3/3/c/0/33c0b6d21c59c5bed959afa2a1bf1c87/Divorce__Separation_Hub_1920_x_1080_px_2000_x_2000_px-3.png","author":"Nikki Parkinson","episode_count":97,"summary":"Hi, I'm Nikki Parkinson, separation strategist, family law expert, mother of three, and divorcee. I'm also the creator of the Divorce and Separation Hub, a resource to show you how to turn a breakup into a breakthrough. On this podcast, I share my expertise from 25 years working in the family law system and my own personal experiences, together with the incredible insight and honesty of guests who have navigated relationship and marriage breakdown and divorce — not only have they survived, they have thrived. Learn the lingo of a lawyer, discover your worth, find your confidence and, most importantly, embrace all your emotions. The Divorce and Separation Hub is your place to feel safe, to feel seen and to find strength, and discover how the Australian family law system works so you can move through it saving legal fees and your sanity. Plus, we don't charge by the hour! Tune in. Free resources at https://www.divorceandseparationhub.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcehub Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedivorcehub LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thedivorcehub","last_synced_at":"2026-07-09T12:17:26.786285+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-and-separation-4057803"},"episode":{"title":"Self Care & Support | The Psychology of Safe Love: What Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does with Phoebe Rogers","slug":"self-care-support-the-psychology-of-safe-love-what-your-body-knows-before-your-brain-does-with-phoebe-rogers","published_at":"2025-10-13T19:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-and-separation-4057803/self-care-support-the-psychology-of-safe-love-what-your-body-knows-before-your-brain-does-with-phoebe-rogers","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/divorce-and-separation-4057803","url":"https://divorceandseparationhub.com/podcast/","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/thedivorceandseparationpodcast/DSH_PODCAST_131025_PHOEBE.mp3?dest-id=2900636","summary":"Have you ever felt your gut warning you about someone but your head talked you out of listening? In this episode I sit down with clinical psychologist and author Phoebe Rogers to explore the psychology of safe love and why rebuilding self-trust after separation starts in your body, not your brain. We dive deep into what happens when you begin healing after separation , why so many of us keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners , and how schema therapy can help you break free from the old relationship patterns that hold you back. Together, we unpack: The link between your nervous system and emotional safety in relationships; Why learning to trust yourself again after divorce is the foundation for love after divorce; What to look for when you're dating after divorce and how to know when you're ready; How your body often senses red flags before your mind catches up; Why healthy, safe love begins with reconnecting to yourself Because true healing after divorce doesn't make you harder to love it makes you better at it. Let's Keep the Conversation Going: Visit Divorce and Separation Hub to explore expert resources, courses, and programs tailored to your needs. Share your questions or comments you're not alone in this. Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub. The Divorce and Separation Hub Website The Divorce and Separation Hub Instagram The Divorce and Separation Hub Facebook The Divorce and Separation Hub Linkedin Join our Divorce and Separation community HERE . Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE . Guest: Phoebe Rogers, Clinical Psychologist and Author of When Will It Happen For Me? Website Buy the Book - When Will It Happen For Me Roadmap to Love; trusting your gut again in dating Instagram Loved This Episod…","meta_description":"Have you ever felt your gut warning you about someone but your head talked you out of listening? 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