{"podcast":{"title":"dirty talk.","slug":"dirty-talk-4403825","podcast_index_feed_id":4403825,"rss_url":"https://feed.pod.space/underthesheetswithtatianaashbornandfriends","website_url":"https://www.dirtytalkofficial.com/","image_url":"https://assets.pod.space/system/shows/images/325/494/b5-/large/Podcast-Poster-2022.png","author":"Tatiana Ashborn","episode_count":67,"summary":"Following my fumbled attempt at first-time sex, I found myself asking, what is normal in the bedroom? I’m lifting the covers on friends, family, and famous faces to find the answers to questions you are too afraid to ask. It’s a show about sex, first times, and taboo topics. I believe sex is what you make it. So let’s share our experiences and learn Dirty Talk along the way.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-02T00:18:42.752347+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dirty-talk-4403825"},"episode":{"title":"Childhood Sweethearts, Engagement & Sex Schedules","slug":"childhood-sweethearts-engagement-sex-schedules","published_at":"2025-12-23T09:56:14+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dirty-talk-4403825/childhood-sweethearts-engagement-sex-schedules","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dirty-talk-4403825","url":"https://pod.space/underthesheetswithtatianaashbornandfriends/childhoos-sweethearts-engagement-sex-schedules","audio_url":"https://media.pod.space/underthesheetswithtatianaashbornandfriends/dirty-talk-podcast-4_audio-form.mp3","summary":"In this fabulous episode, Tatiana sits down with long-term couple Chris & Catherine, who have been together since they were just 13 years old. From friends with benefits at school parties to building a real adult life together, their story spans over 11 years of growing up side by side. They talk openly about first times, insecurity, jealousy, and how love changes from your teens into adulthood. They share how learning each other’s love languages, communicating without shouting, and staying emotionally connected helped them stay together through busy and difficult phases. They also open up about sex, intimacy, mismatched sex drives, scheduling time for each other, money, living together, and getting engaged. The episode ends with honest reflections on marriage, pressure to have children, and choosing not to rush major life decisions just because everyone else expects it. Thank you for coming on the show, and best of luck with the wedding!! 💒 Key Points Video Includes: -Meeting at 13 and growing up in the same relationship -Friends with benefits, commitment fears, and the ultimatum that changed everything -First times, awkward teenage moments, and early intimacy -Love languages, communication, and avoiding big arguments -Insecurity, jealousy, and building confidence over time -Sex, mismatched sex drives, and scheduling intimacy in long-term relationships -Moving in together, money, and managing adult life as a couple -Engagement story and planning a wedding in Spain -Marriage expectations and pressure from family and society -Deciding not to rush into having children and protecting their relationship","meta_description":"In this fabulous episode, Tatiana sits down with long-term couple Chris & Catherine, who have been together since they were just 13 years old. From fr…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3646,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dirty-talk-4403825/episodes/childhood-sweethearts-engagement-sex-schedules/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dirty-talk-4403825/childhood-sweethearts-engagement-sex-schedules.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}