{"podcast":{"title":"Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman","slug":"dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811","podcast_index_feed_id":167811,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/dates-and-mates/","website_url":"https://www.datesandmates.com","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/9e65bb2f-a20c-4145-8ec5-d22059039c1b/dates-mates-podcast-v5.jpg","author":"Dates and Mates Media","episode_count":627,"summary":"From navigating dating apps to overcoming the friendzone to seeking a soulmate, this ain’t your momma’s love advice! Hosted by the Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and LA Times advice columnist, Damona Hoffman, Dates & Mates is jam-packed with interviews from your favorites celebs, authors, and experts. Dates & Mates is the 2022 Winner of The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Podcasting Awards, #1 ranked love and relationship podcast by Cosmopolitan Magazine and a Top 10 Pick by HuffPost in the love category.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-02T20:18:53.092051+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811"},"episode":{"title":"Text Me Maybe & Two-Person Problem","slug":"text-me-maybe-two-person-problem","published_at":"2025-10-14T14:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811/text-me-maybe-two-person-problem","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811","url":"https://www.datesandmates.com","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/66509c99-b5ec-46ce-bf3f-bc9849740d31.mp3","summary":"Ever feel like you're speaking different languages with your partner, literally? When one of you wants deep conversations over text and the other needs to actually hear a voice, it's not just frustrating. It's creating real distance. This week, a listener shares: \"I'm seeing this guy and we have totally different ways of communicating and it's starting to become a problem. He's all about texting, like everything is through text with him. He wants to have these deep conversations over text and I'm more of a 'can we just call, can we actually talk?' person. Last week I had something I really needed to bring up with him and I texted him about it since that's what he prefers and it went so wrong.\" In this episode, Damona unpacks why text-based communication has disrupted relationships more than dating apps ever did, what different communication preferences reveal about emotional processing, and how to bridge the gap without losing yourself in the compromise. What You'll Hear In This Episode: Why texting is a new form of communication that must be learned How the “Why” behind someone’s communication style tells you everything A practical framework for having \"communication about communication\" Scripts for setting up “The Talk” about communication New ways to assess compatibility 4 ways to reconnect beyond a text message Resources & Links: Want to track what's working (and what's not) in your dating life? Download the free Date Tracker at damonahoffman.com/datetracker Got a communication question? DM @DamonaHoffman on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or leave a voicemail or text at 424-246-6255 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Mentioned in this episode: Book Your Breakthrough Boost today DamonaHoffman.com/breakthrough","meta_description":"Ever feel like you're speaking different languages with your partner, literally? When one of you wants deep conversations over text and the other needs to…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1811,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811/episodes/text-me-maybe-two-person-problem/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman-167811/text-me-maybe-two-person-problem.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}