{"podcast":{"title":"Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships","slug":"dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044","podcast_index_feed_id":1055044,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2025/1/31/17/206d8be6-9f95-47b3-bde6-2a870de84521_1a6f3_avatars-iwquraszqyqpfwud-czgcsw-original.jpg","author":"Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick","episode_count":723,"summary":"Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted! Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday! If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world. Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review! Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join th…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-06T00:20:14.457641+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044"},"episode":{"title":"How Not To Choose The Wrong Partner: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)","slug":"how-not-to-choose-the-wrong-partner-what-we-learned-the-hard-way-so-you-don-t-have-to","published_at":"2026-04-10T12:00:59+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044/how-not-to-choose-the-wrong-partner-what-we-learned-the-hard-way-so-you-don-t-have-to","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044","url":"http://www.dateablepodcast.com/","audio_url":"https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/s.gum.fm/s-62d5f25cbff646095d5ab542/audio2.redcircle.com/episodes/783b41f0-ce95-47d6-949d-9574476dc1ef/stream.mp3","summary":"If you’re like 46% of our audience, you may be afraid of choosing the wrong partner—and that fear can keep you stuck overthinking every decision or holding onto something that doesn’t feel right. In this episode, we share why the real mistake isn’t picking the wrong person—it’s staying too long when it’s not working. We discuss what we wish we could tell our younger selves to relinquish this fear and actually get into healthy relationships (and leave ones that are draining our time, energy, and mental health!) Enjoy! - Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: https://howtobedateable.com/ Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks: https://studio.com/dateable Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcasts The Psychology of Relationships and Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: h…","meta_description":"If you’re like 46% of our audience, you may be afraid of choosing the wrong partner—and that fear can keep you stuck overthinking every decision or holdin…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1247,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044/episodes/how-not-to-choose-the-wrong-partner-what-we-learned-the-hard-way-so-you-don-t-have-to/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044/how-not-to-choose-the-wrong-partner-what-we-learned-the-hard-way-so-you-don-t-have-to.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}