{"podcast":{"title":"Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships","slug":"dateable-your-insider-s-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships-1055044","podcast_index_feed_id":1055044,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2025/1/31/17/206d8be6-9f95-47b3-bde6-2a870de84521_1a6f3_avatars-iwquraszqyqpfwud-czgcsw-original.jpg","author":"Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick","episode_count":750,"summary":"Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted! Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday! If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world. Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review! 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