{"podcast":{"title":"Daily Power Boost: Stop Performing. Start Becoming.","slug":"daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200","podcast_index_feed_id":7088200,"rss_url":"https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/2084832/s/214193.rss","website_url":"https://trunorth.substack.com/s/daily-power-boost-ignite-your-potential","image_url":"https://substackcdn.com/feed/podcast/2084832/s/214193/9da0743134b562268e800f3090d8d416.jpg","author":"Shawn Michael","episode_count":370,"summary":"Join Shawn Michael for daily insights, strategies, & action steps to fuel your personal and professional growth. Each quick, impactful episode is your daily \"power boost\" to break limits, stay focused, & ignite greatness within. Whether you're an entrepreneur, leader, or ready for transformation, this series will keep you inspired and on track to lasting success. Don’t just dream about your best life—make it your reality. Tune in daily & discover how to unleash unstoppable momentum, crush obstacles, & awaken the extraordinary potential you’ve always had inside. Transformation Starts Now!","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200"},"episode":{"title":"They Liked You Better When You Were Smaller","slug":"they-liked-you-better-when-you-were-smaller","published_at":"2026-05-12T17:58:55+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200/they-liked-you-better-when-you-were-smaller","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200","url":"https://trunorth.substack.com/p/they-liked-you-better-when-you-were","audio_url":"https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/197383130/63a8d4166253507d2587660927d66b54.mp3","summary":"The people closest to you were calibrated for an older version of you. That’s not a criticism of them. It’s simply what happens when one person grows and the relational contract doesn’t get updated. The friction you’ve been feeling in certain relationships isn’t rejection. It’s renegotiation. And nobody sent out the notice that terms were changing. This episode names what happens at the identity level when you stop shrinking to fit the space other people reserved for you. When you drop the habit of processing out loud, stop returning for external validation before making decisions, and start moving with a calmness that you didn’t have before, the people who built their sense of closeness on your need for them genuinely don’t know where to stand. They aren’t wrong for feeling the distance. And you aren’t wrong for having grown. What the episode clarifies is this: the discomfort in those relationships isn’t a signal that something has gone wrong. It’s a signal that the old terms no longer apply. Some relationships will stretch and find new ones. Others won’t. Learning to tell the difference is part of what the new identity requires. In This Episode * Why the friction in your closest relationships often has nothing to do with conflict and everything to do with contract * How the people who love you most can become the loudest pull toward the version of you they knew * The difference between people who are adjusting to your growth and people who never planned to * Why stopping the habit of over-explaining and seeking reassurance reads as distance to the people who needed those things from you * How to stop reading relational discomfort as a verdict on the validity of your shift * Why shrinking to match who you used to be is a tax, and who’s actually collecting it Reflectio…","meta_description":"The people closest to you were calibrated for an older version of you. That’s not a criticism of them. It’s simply what happens when one person grows and…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":367,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200/episodes/they-liked-you-better-when-you-were-smaller/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/daily-power-boost-stop-performing-start-becoming-7088200/they-liked-you-better-when-you-were-smaller.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}