{"podcast":{"title":"Dad Starting Over","slug":"dad-starting-over-688904","podcast_index_feed_id":688904,"rss_url":"https://feeds.simplecast.com/21gkvCTf","website_url":"https://helpformen.com","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/d-QRPjgB_AEpdBEsEn13LXnLWiP8dPISlalraupXo84/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.jpg","author":"Dad Starting Over","episode_count":268,"summary":"Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! \"Starting Over\" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place. I'm Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books including \"The Dead Bedroom Fix\", \"Divorce Panic\", \"Real Talk\" \"Red Flags\" and \"REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man\". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the Brotherhood at https://helpformen.com","last_synced_at":"2026-06-05T22:19:57.188729+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-688904"},"episode":{"title":"Sexless Marriage: She Was Different With Him","slug":"sexless-marriage-she-was-different-with-him","published_at":"2026-05-22T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-688904/sexless-marriage-she-was-different-with-him","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-688904","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/699c77c2","audio_url":"https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/699c77c2/ebb54ffd.mp3","summary":"A guy emailed me something that a lot of men are quietly thinking but don’t want to say out loud… “My wife used to be wild before me. Now she barely wants anything to do with me.” This one stings. Because it forces you to compare yourself to her past—and wonder what changed. In this episode, I break down what’s really going on when a woman who once had a strong sexual side suddenly shuts it down in a long-term relationship. We talk about: • The science behind the honeymoon phase and why it fades • Why novelty and newness play a bigger role than most people realize • How some people are wired to need “new relationship energy” to feel desire • Why this isn’t always about you—but sometimes it is • What men can actually do (and what they can’t fix) If you’re in a sexless marriage and feel like you’re not getting the version of her that other men got… this one will hit home. Start here: https://deadbedroomfix.com If you want to talk to other men going through this and get real feedback: https://helpformen.com/join","meta_description":"A guy emailed me something that a lot of men are quietly thinking but don’t want to say out loud… “My wife used to be wild before me. Now she barely wants…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":640,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dad-starting-over-688904/episodes/sexless-marriage-she-was-different-with-him/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-688904/sexless-marriage-she-was-different-with-him.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}