{"podcast":{"title":"Dad Starting Over","slug":"dad-starting-over-1383563","podcast_index_feed_id":1383563,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/dad-starting-over","website_url":"https://helpformen.com","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/d-QRPjgB_AEpdBEsEn13LXnLWiP8dPISlalraupXo84/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.jpg","author":"Dad Starting Over","episode_count":276,"summary":"Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! \"Starting Over\" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place. I'm Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books including \"The Dead Bedroom Fix\", \"Divorce Panic\", \"Real Talk\" \"Red Flags\" and \"REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man\". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the Brotherhood at https://helpformen.com","last_synced_at":"2026-07-22T06:21:42.939169+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-1383563"},"episode":{"title":"Why Women Remember Everything","slug":"why-women-remember-everything","published_at":"2026-05-01T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-1383563/why-women-remember-everything","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-1383563","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/03b7016e","audio_url":"https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/03b7016e/ba9d3960.mp3","summary":"Have you ever noticed how your wife or girlfriend can recall arguments from 10… 15… even 20 years ago with incredible detail? Not just the event itself. The exact words. The tone. Where you were standing. What you said. Meanwhile you're sitting there thinking, “I barely remember last week.” In this episode, I explain why this happens and why women often remember emotional events in relationships far longer than men do. It’s not just a stereotype. There are real psychological and biological reasons behind it. We’ll talk about emotional memory, rumination, relationship pattern tracking, and why unresolved emotional injuries can stay alive in someone's memory for decades. Understanding this dynamic can completely change how you view long-term relationships and recurring arguments. If you’re dealing with a struggling marriage, resentment that never seems to go away, or a sexless relationship, this video will give you some useful insight. If you're struggling with a sexless marriage, check out my book: https://deadbedroomfix.com And if you want support from men dealing with the same issues, learn more about the Help For Men Brotherhood: https://helpformen.com/join We host multiple live meetings every week where men talk openly about marriage problems, divorce, dating after divorce, and rebuilding their lives. You're not alone in this.","meta_description":"Have you ever noticed how your wife or girlfriend can recall arguments from 10… 15… even 20 years ago with incredible detail? Not just the event itself. T…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":620,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dad-starting-over-1383563/episodes/why-women-remember-everything/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/dad-starting-over-1383563/why-women-remember-everything.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}