{"podcast":{"title":"Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction","slug":"couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059","podcast_index_feed_id":3448059,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/coupleshealing/feed.xml","website_url":"https://coupleshealing.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/10134644/Podcast_Artwork7h2gl.jpg","author":"Sam Tielemans, LMFT","episode_count":262,"summary":"Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T22:19:33.383174+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059"},"episode":{"title":"264: She’s Completely Shut Down After Discovery and He Doesn't Know What to Do. 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Email me here: sam@healingcouples.org Check out episode 95 to learn strategies to work through shame. Episode show notes: After pornography addiction is discovered, many couples find themselves stuck in an unexpected cycle. The wife pulls away because she no longer feels safe. The husband wants to make things better but doesn't know what to do. She waits for him to take the lead. He waits for a sign that she's ready to reconnect. Days turn into weeks, and both people end up feeling discouraged, disconnected, and alone. In this episode, we discuss how to break that cycle and begin rebuilding trust after porn addiction. You'll learn why healing after pornography addiction requires more than simply waiting for time to pass or hoping things will naturally improve. Lasting porn addiction recovery involves intentional conversations, consistent actions, emotional growth, and learning how to create safety one step at a time. We'll explore three foundational principles that help couples move forward after betrayal. You'll learn why understanding the emotional impact of pornography addiction is essential for rebuilding trust, how regular recovery conversations create safety instead of distance, and why consistency matters more than quick results. We'll also discuss one of the biggest barriers to healing after porn addiction: shame. When shame takes over, it becomes difficult for a husband to truly hear his wife's pain, express empathy, or remain emotionally present during difficult conversations. If you're try…","meta_description":"Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? 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