{"podcast":{"title":"Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction","slug":"couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059","podcast_index_feed_id":3448059,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/coupleshealing/feed.xml","website_url":"https://coupleshealing.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/10134644/Podcast_Artwork7h2gl.jpg","author":"Sam Tielemans, LMFT","episode_count":262,"summary":"Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T22:19:33.383174+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059"},"episode":{"title":"241: Is Pornography Addiction a Choice or Coping Mechanism? How You Can Tell (And Fix the Problem)","slug":"241-is-pornography-addiction-a-choice-or-coping-mechanism-how-you-can-tell-and-fix-the-problem","published_at":"2026-03-26T10:22:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059/241-is-pornography-addiction-a-choice-or-coping-mechanism-how-you-can-tell-and-fix-the-problem","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/couples-healing-from-pornography-addiction-3448059","url":"https://coupleshealing.podbean.com/e/241-is-pornography-addiction-a-choice-or-coping-mechanism-how-you-can-tell-and-fix-the-problem/","audio_url":"https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/zmz23pjqi5zswrag/241_choice_or_coping_mechbbits.mp3","summary":"Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: sam@healingcouples.org Episode show notes: Is pornography addiction a choice or a coping mechanism? The answer is both — and that one idea can change everything about how you recover from it. If you're a wife trying to heal from the betrayal of your husband's pornography use, this episode will help you understand what was actually driving his behavior — and how to tell whether real change is possible. If you're a husband who wants to quit pornography for good but keeps failing no matter how hard you try, this episode explains exactly why willpower isn't working — and what to do instead. Most pornography addiction recovery advice tells men to manage their urges better. Accountability partners. App blockers. Cold showers. That's not what we teach here. Quitting pornography for good means resolving the pain underneath the urge — low self-worth, inability to be vulnerable, unprocessed stress and shame. Fix the root, and the urge loses its fuel. You'll also learn the single clearest signal that tells a wife whether her husband's pornography recovery is real — and it has nothing to do with what he says in the moment she finds out. In this episode: Is pornography addiction a choice or a coping mechanism — the real answer How to quit pornography by resolving the root cause, not managing urges How to rebuild trust after pornography addiction is discovered Why shame and remorse don't stop pornography use — and what does How wives can heal from betrayal trauma after pornography addiction The clea…","meta_description":"Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? 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