{"podcast":{"title":"\"Come On, Man\" Podcast","slug":"come-on-man-podcast-1313440","podcast_index_feed_id":1313440,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/31b46d84/podcast/rss","website_url":"http://www.comeonmanpod.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/8239081/8239081-1709226332543-64ba779005254.jpg","author":"Paul B.","episode_count":705,"summary":"Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-08T06:20:53.622295+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440"},"episode":{"title":"Why She Can Tell You’re \"Performing\" in Bed (And How to Fix It)","slug":"why-she-can-tell-you-re-performing-in-bed-and-how-to-fix-it","published_at":"2026-06-15T15:37:08+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/why-she-can-tell-you-re-performing-in-bed-and-how-to-fix-it","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/episodes/Why-She-Can-Tell-Youre-Performing-in-Bed-And-How-to-Fix-It-e3kqne3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO9933876967.mp3","summary":"Is performance anxiety holding you back in the bedroom? Most men treat sex like a high-stakes test they can fail, but real confidence comes from shifting your focus entirely off yourself and onto her. In this video, we break down why treating sex as a performance kills the vibe, how operating from a \"prize frame\" instantly eliminates insecurity, and the exact steps to train your mind to stay fully present so she feels genuinely attended to. Stop letting doubt dictate your nights, learn how to roll with imperfection without tensing up, and master the mental shifts that will completely transform your sexual confidence. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- FREE EBOOKS ➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com ➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us ➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com -------------------------------------------- BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS ➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod ➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks -------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast Follow on X - https:/…","meta_description":"Is performance anxiety holding you back in the bedroom? Most men treat sex like a high-stakes test they can fail, but real confidence comes from shifting…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4395,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/episodes/why-she-can-tell-you-re-performing-in-bed-and-how-to-fix-it/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/why-she-can-tell-you-re-performing-in-bed-and-how-to-fix-it.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}