{"podcast":{"title":"\"Come On, Man\" Podcast","slug":"come-on-man-podcast-1313440","podcast_index_feed_id":1313440,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/31b46d84/podcast/rss","website_url":"http://www.comeonmanpod.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/8239081/8239081-1709226332543-64ba779005254.jpg","author":"Paul B.","episode_count":655,"summary":"Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440"},"episode":{"title":"Heaven or Hell: Choose the Mental State You Live in Right Now","slug":"heaven-or-hell-choose-the-mental-state-you-live-in-right-now","published_at":"2026-05-29T16:22:50+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/heaven-or-hell-choose-the-mental-state-you-live-in-right-now","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/episodes/Heaven-or-Hell-Choose-the-Mental-State-You-Live-in-Right-Now-e3k2p8i","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO8379272104.mp3","summary":"Most men search for fulfillment in external status, wealth, or relationship validation, completely missing the fact that their daily experience of reality is manufactured entirely from within. In this episode, we unpack the psychological truth that heaven and hell are not distant destinations, but exact emotional baselines you occupy right now based on your scale of consciousness. We break down the absolute damage of running lower mental states like shame and guilt, how internal filters distort your perception of the physical world, and the strategy of outcome detachment. Stop letting external chaos dictate your mental world and learn how to construct an internal state of complete stability. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- FREE EBOOKS ➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com ➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us -------------------------------------------- BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS ➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod ➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks -------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast Follow on X…","meta_description":"Most men search for fulfillment in external status, wealth, or relationship validation, completely missing the fact that their daily experience of reality…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":6572,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/episodes/heaven-or-hell-choose-the-mental-state-you-live-in-right-now/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/heaven-or-hell-choose-the-mental-state-you-live-in-right-now.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}