{"podcast":{"title":"Cocktales with Kiki","slug":"cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763","podcast_index_feed_id":543763,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/2818687/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/cocktales-dirty-discussions","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54ba576a71579f952ff3855fa466c6dd.jpg","author":"Kiki Said So","episode_count":500,"summary":"Cocktales with Kiki is the place where cocktails meet candid conversation, hosted by Kiki Said So. What started with wild stories about sex, dating, and relationships has grown into something bigger: the kind of conversations you have over dinner with your girls, in the group chat at 2 a.m., or after somebody says, “Okay, but can I tell y’all what REALLY happened?” From love, friendship, and questionable decisions to pop culture, travel, internet rabbit holes, and whatever has Kiki curious this week, nothing is too random to make it to the table. Some weeks Kiki is riding solo, other weeks friends and guests pull up to add their own Cocktales to the mix. Expect laughs, unfiltered opinions, unsolicited advice, a little mess, a lot of curiosity, and of course, a cocktail or two. Because life gives us plenty to talk about, and around here, every sip has a story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support .","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T18:18:21.331278+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763"},"episode":{"title":"Ep. 479 Who Has Shut Up Money?!","slug":"ep-479-who-has-shut-up-money","published_at":"2026-02-12T21:45:36+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/ep-479-who-has-shut-up-money","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-479-who-has-shut-up-money--70023287","audio_url":"https://op3.dev/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/p5972/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70023287/ep_479_edit_21226.mp3","summary":"A candid exploration of the friction between luxury travel dreams and the reality of group trip budgets. The hosts also navigate the complexities of setting boundaries in dating and the pitfalls of long-distance relationships.","meta_description":"From the chaos of planning group vacations to setting boundaries on Valentine's Day, the hosts dive into the messy reality of adulting and relationships.","key_points":["Main idea: The tension between wanting luxury travel and the logistical nightmare of group budgeting","Practical takeaway: Use clear communication to set expectations for holiday dates like Valentine's Day to avoid delusion","Failure mode: Relying on group chats to plan complex trips often leads to stagnation and lack of commitment","Main idea: The psychological difficulty of moving past 'trauma bonds' in modern dating","Practical takeaway: Long-distance relationships require a concrete plan for relocation to remain viable"],"chapters":[{"start_ms":60000,"title":"Nostalgia and Nightlife","summary":"Reflecting on past wilder eras and the chaotic memories of Atlanta nightlife."},{"start_ms":300000,"title":"Celebrations and Milestones","summary":"Discussing recent birthday celebrations and the joy of winery trips."},{"start_ms":540000,"title":"The Group Trip Budget Struggle","summary":"The difficulty of coordinating group travel when financial expectations and flexibility don't align."},{"start_ms":840000,"title":"Weird Sex and Medical Surprises","summary":"A shocking story involving a medical discovery and its impact on personal health and relationships."},{"start_ms":1080000,"title":"Relationship Boundaries","summary":"Navigating the 'options' game and setting firm stipulations for holiday plans."},{"start_ms":1320000,"title":"Valentine's Day Realism","summary":"Advice on avoiding romantic delusion and communicating needs for upcoming holidays."},{"start_ms":1860000,"title":"The Long-Distance Verdict","summary":"A blunt discussion on why long-distance relationships fail without a plan to close the gap."}],"topics":["Travel Planning","Group Dynamics","Relationship Advice","Dating Boundaries","Budgeting","Long Distance Relationships","Adulting","Emotional Intelligence"],"duration_seconds":3393,"processing_state":"processed","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/episodes/ep-479-who-has-shut-up-money/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/ep-479-who-has-shut-up-money.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}