{"podcast":{"title":"Cocktales with Kiki","slug":"cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763","podcast_index_feed_id":543763,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/2818687/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/cocktales-dirty-discussions","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54ba576a71579f952ff3855fa466c6dd.jpg","author":"Kiki Said So","episode_count":500,"summary":"Cocktales with Kiki is the place where cocktails meet candid conversation, hosted by Kiki Said So. What started with wild stories about sex, dating, and relationships has grown into something bigger: the kind of conversations you have over dinner with your girls, in the group chat at 2 a.m., or after somebody says, “Okay, but can I tell y’all what REALLY happened?” From love, friendship, and questionable decisions to pop culture, travel, internet rabbit holes, and whatever has Kiki curious this week, nothing is too random to make it to the table. Some weeks Kiki is riding solo, other weeks friends and guests pull up to add their own Cocktales to the mix. Expect laughs, unfiltered opinions, unsolicited advice, a little mess, a lot of curiosity, and of course, a cocktail or two. Because life gives us plenty to talk about, and around here, every sip has a story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support .","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T18:18:21.331278+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763"},"episode":{"title":"Don't Make Me Match Your Energy","slug":"don-t-make-me-match-your-energy","published_at":"2026-09-04T13:14:41+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/don-t-make-me-match-your-energy","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-make-me-match-your-energy--74898609","audio_url":"https://op3.dev/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/p5972/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/74898609/ep505_v1_01.mp3","summary":"What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back? This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary and just being petty, why changed energy can tell you everything you need to know, and whether “matching energy” is actually empowering… or just letting somebody else dictate how you move. Then Sip & Spill takes a turn when a caller shares a situation involving an ex resurfacing and a baby, raising some very real questions about old relationships, unexpected circumstances, and what happens when the past comes knocking with a whole new set of complications. Plus: flaky friends, knowing who really shows up for you, and why sometimes the best response to weird energy is not matching it at all.Every sip has a story — and this one comes with boundaries. SPONSORS: VB HEALTH- SOAKING WET Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off INDACLOUD If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COKTALES #indacloudpod Contact Me! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Sip & Spill: You can also leave a voicemail and spill whatever you want! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Chapters 00:00 The Energy Match Cocktail Recipe 01:22 Adventures at the Brown Butter Supper Club 05:25 The Dishwasher Disaster Update 09:59 Building Your Creative Collective 12:26 Is Your Relations…","meta_description":"What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back? This week on CockTales w…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4337,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/episodes/don-t-make-me-match-your-energy/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions-543763/don-t-make-me-match-your-energy.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}