{"podcast":{"title":"Charisma on Command","slug":"charisma-on-command-8013826","podcast_index_feed_id":8013826,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/charisma-on-command","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/eeb53f14-a1b4-11f1-b540-ef6158e3300a/image/37cfef2365593c285c30ea763431e058.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Charisma on Command","episode_count":49,"summary":"Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.For Charisma University, go to https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/Thanks!Links:Charisma University: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-universityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommandInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/","last_synced_at":"2026-09-21T04:18:41.782985+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/charisma-on-command-8013826"},"episode":{"title":"How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You","slug":"how-to-make-someone-realize-they-can-t-control-you","published_at":"2026-09-21T03:51:49+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/charisma-on-command-8013826/how-to-make-someone-realize-they-can-t-control-you","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/charisma-on-command-8013826","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/HD6253140217.mp3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/HD6253140217.mp3","summary":"The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00 - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices","meta_description":"The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in groun…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":676,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/charisma-on-command-8013826/episodes/how-to-make-someone-realize-they-can-t-control-you/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/charisma-on-command-8013826/how-to-make-someone-realize-they-can-t-control-you.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}