{"podcast":{"title":"Change The Odds","slug":"change-the-odds-6742411","podcast_index_feed_id":6742411,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/change-the-odds","website_url":"https://changetheodds.transistor.fm/","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/c4MRCR9t0BV6UkqKHMHVCWwXCEj4iZXdzbWPQh_UdgA/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS83NmU0/MTY2OWFkYjA0MjMy/OTAzNjRmN2U4NmEw/NjI0ZC5qcGc.jpg","author":"Kevin A. Thompson","episode_count":94,"summary":"Welcome to Change the Odds, the podcast! Discover practical tips on how to initiate conversations with your spouse about the need for more attention and create a system for giving each other the attention you both deserve. If you want to strengthen your marriage and enhance your connection with your partner, this podcast is a must. Join the conversation and don’t miss out on this valuable advice for building a lasting and fulfilling relationship.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/change-the-odds-6742411"},"episode":{"title":"Why Do I Even Have to Ask? The Mental Load Fight","slug":"why-do-i-even-have-to-ask-the-mental-load-fight","published_at":"2026-01-21T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/change-the-odds-6742411/why-do-i-even-have-to-ask-the-mental-load-fight","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/change-the-odds-6742411","url":"https://changetheodds.thrivepodcastnetwork.com/episodes/why-do-i-even-have-to-ask-the-mental-load-fight","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/55fbf4cc/259f3637.mp3","summary":"What happens when one partner carries the weight of everything—while the other says, “you never asked” ? We unpack the fight about invisible labor, attachment styles, and how to stop the burnout spiral in your relationship. -- Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram) : https://go.bayside.church/fightclub","meta_description":"What happens when one partner carries the weight of everything—while the other says, “you never asked” ? We unpack the fight about invisible labor, attach…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2095,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/change-the-odds-6742411/episodes/why-do-i-even-have-to-ask-the-mental-load-fight/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/change-the-odds-6742411/why-do-i-even-have-to-ask-the-mental-load-fight.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}