{"podcast":{"title":"Beyond the Bombshell: Confidence, Style, and Empowerment for Women","slug":"beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453","podcast_index_feed_id":6458453,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/beyond-the-bombshell/","website_url":"https://beyond-the-bombshell.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/14a107a3-2d0b-4ec1-a88f-a869ffddcac3/Untitled-design-34.jpg","author":"Michelle Stokes","episode_count":147,"summary":"Welcome to Beyond the Bombshell—the podcast where real life meets relatable chaos and vulnerability. Host Michelle Stokes dives into the everyday highs and lows of being a wife, mom, entrepreneur, and unapologetically human. From juggling hormones and relationships to chasing dreams and navigating those \"just trying to survive the week\" moments, this podcast is your reminder that life is messy, but it's also full of beauty and growth. Come for the unfiltered honesty, stay for the laughs, lessons, and the occasional coffee-fueled brain dump. Let's embrace the bombshell moments—one imperfect episode at a time.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-27T12:17:22.838843+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453"},"episode":{"title":"\"I Should Have\" Is Keeping You Stuck: This One's For the Women Living in the Aftermath","slug":"i-should-have-is-keeping-you-stuck-this-one-s-for-the-women-living-in-the-aftermath","published_at":"2026-07-13T06:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453/i-should-have-is-keeping-you-stuck-this-one-s-for-the-women-living-in-the-aftermath","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453","url":"https://beyond-the-bombshell.captivate.fm/episode/i-should-have-is-keeping-you-stuck-this-ones-for-the-women-living-in-the-aftermath","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e7e6b594-7644-44ef-8034-c94b337534da.mp3","summary":"Michelle records outside her office unpacking two phrases that are quietly doing damage—one she never says, one she says a million times a day without realizing it. She doesn't say \"I can't.\" She figures it out, she does the thing, she makes it work. But then she gets stuck in the aftermath, replaying everything she should have done differently, should have bought, should have said. Josh finally called it out: every \"I should have\" is just self-blame in disguise, keeping her mentally stuck in the past instead of planning for the future. The reframe? Replace \"I should have gotten hot dogs\" with \"next time I'll get hot dogs.\" Simple, but it changes everything. If you're an \"I can't\" person or an \"I should have\" person—or somehow both—this one's the mirror you didn't know you needed. Timestamps: 00:00 Two Phrases, Two Problems 03:14 I Don't Say \"I Can't\"—Here's Why 06:28 But I Say \"I Should Have\" Constantly 09:42 What \"I Should Have\" Actually Does to You 13:17 Josh Called It Out 16:44 The Reframe: \"Next Time I'll...\" 20:33 What Happens When You're Both 23:18 Take It Out of Your Vocabulary If you know someone stuck in \"I should have\" or \"I can't,\" share this—sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else before it actually lands. And if you want to stay connected, you can find me on social media and on my website via the links below. I love hearing from you, so don’t be shy about jumping into my DMs. Let’s Connect! Follow Michelle Stokes on; LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/bombshell.by.michelle","meta_description":"Michelle records outside her office unpacking two phrases that are quietly doing damage—one she never says, one she says a million times a day without rea…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1601,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453/episodes/i-should-have-is-keeping-you-stuck-this-one-s-for-the-women-living-in-the-aftermath/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-the-bombshell-confidence-style-and-empowerment-for-women-6458453/i-should-have-is-keeping-you-stuck-this-one-s-for-the-women-living-in-the-aftermath.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}