{"podcast":{"title":"Being Human","slug":"being-human-1367973","podcast_index_feed_id":1367973,"rss_url":"https://beinghumancpi.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://beinghuman.catholicpsych.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/4/5/0/8/4508d8ce03f136cfd959afa2a1bf1c87/BH-Cover-New.jpg","author":"Dr. Gregory Bottaro","episode_count":297,"summary":"At the CatholicPsych Institute, we're doing something new when it comes to therapy. In the Being Human podcast, Dr. Greg Bottaro, Founder and Director of the CatholicPsych Institute, shares with you his vision for Catholic therapy and a revolutionary approach that is focused, finally, on what it means to be human.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-15T16:21:53.947862+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 291: OCPD and Scrupulosity: How the Worship of Rules and Control Leads to the Loneliness of Certainty","slug":"episode-291-ocpd-and-scrupulosity-how-the-worship-of-rules-and-control-leads-to-the-loneliness-of-certainty","published_at":"2026-08-11T08:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973/episode-291-ocpd-and-scrupulosity-how-the-worship-of-rules-and-control-leads-to-the-loneliness-of-certainty","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973","url":"https://beinghuman.catholicpsych.com/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_campaign=podcast","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/beinghumancpi/BH_291_-_Edited_Audio.mp3?dest-id=2450216","summary":"Certainty feels like safety. But you can only ever be certain alone — and the life you build on control slowly becomes a lonely one. In week two of the series on OCPD, Dr. Greg explores why we reach for control when trust feels dangerous — and how the certainty we build to feel safe ends up costing us the very relationships it was meant to protect. Key Topics: Why the certainty that makes you feel safe is the same thing that leaves you alone How a rule can feel safer than a person — because a rule never changes its face Why the control you use to protect the people you love can drive them straight into the danger you feared How devotion can quietly turn into a contract with God instead of trust in Him Why trying harder to get it perfect is the pattern itself, not the way out of it Learn More: Previous episode in this series — OCPD Part 1: Ep. #290: \"I'm Only Loved When I'm Perfect\": The Lie Fueling Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder Join us at the Summit of Integration this October in Dallas — launching the Year of St. John Paul II Faith of the Fatherless: The Psychology of Atheism by Dr. Paul Vitz — on how wounded trust in a father can shape our capacity for faith Person and Act — St. John Paul II's (Karol Wojtyła's) philosophical work on the acting person, and the personalist heart of this episode Stop Walking on Eggshells by Paul Mason & Randi Kreger — the book on borderline patterns Dr. Greg references Start of the Being Human series on the Antisocial Defense Patterns: Ep. #281: Control or Be Controlled: The Devastating Wounds Behind Antisocial Behavioral Patterns Start of the Being Human series on the Borderline Defense Patterns: Ep. #269: BORDERLINE: The Push-Pull Between a Fear of Abandonment and Annihilation Start of the Being Human series on the Histrio…","meta_description":"Certainty feels like safety. But you can only ever be certain alone — and the life you build on control slowly becomes a lonely one. In week two of the se…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2726,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/being-human-1367973/episodes/episode-291-ocpd-and-scrupulosity-how-the-worship-of-rules-and-control-leads-to-the-loneliness-of-certainty/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973/episode-291-ocpd-and-scrupulosity-how-the-worship-of-rules-and-control-leads-to-the-loneliness-of-certainty.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}