{"podcast":{"title":"Being Human","slug":"being-human-1367973","podcast_index_feed_id":1367973,"rss_url":"https://beinghumancpi.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://beinghuman.catholicpsych.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/4/5/0/8/4508d8ce03f136cfd959afa2a1bf1c87/BH-Cover-New.jpg","author":"Dr. Gregory Bottaro","episode_count":297,"summary":"At the CatholicPsych Institute, we're doing something new when it comes to therapy. In the Being Human podcast, Dr. Greg Bottaro, Founder and Director of the CatholicPsych Institute, shares with you his vision for Catholic therapy and a revolutionary approach that is focused, finally, on what it means to be human.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-15T16:21:53.947862+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 286: A Mental Tug of War: Inside the Avoidant Mind and the Burden of Being Known","slug":"episode-286-a-mental-tug-of-war-inside-the-avoidant-mind-and-the-burden-of-being-known","published_at":"2026-07-07T08:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973/episode-286-a-mental-tug-of-war-inside-the-avoidant-mind-and-the-burden-of-being-known","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973","url":"https://beinghuman.catholicpsych.com/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_campaign=podcast","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/beinghumancpi/BH_286_-_Edited_Audio.mp3?dest-id=2450216","summary":"Avoidance looks like not wanting people. It's almost always the opposite: wanting connection so badly that being seen feels like the biggest risk of all. In this episode, Dr. Greg explores avoidant personality patterns through the lens of Catholic anthropology—where the quiet tug-of-war between longing to be known and fearing rejection comes from, and how the difference between what happens in us and what we choose opens a path toward freedom. Key Topics: Why \"I just need my space\" can be a wall dressed up as a boundary How a childhood full of real love—not neglect—can still teach you that being seen means being blamed Why avoidant personality isn't the same as avoidant attachment, even though they share a name What the text you rewrite four times before sending is actually protecting you from Why even your anger can be an imitation of Christ, not something to hide How the difference between what \"happens\" in you and what you choose to do can pull you out of hiding Learn More: Previous episode on attachment theory: Ep. #63: Attachment Theory: What It Is, What It Isn't, and How It Affects Your Relationships Previous episodes on parts work (IFS): Ep. #34: A New Theory! w/ a Catholic Lens Ep. #35: Why Do I Feel Like I Have Conflicting Thoughts? w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski Person and Act : St. John Paul II's (Karol Wojtyła's) philosophical work on the acting person, referenced in this episode Start of the Being Human series on the Antisocial Defense Patterns: Ep. #281: Control or Be Controlled: The Devastating Wounds Behind Antisocial Behavioral Patterns Start of the Being Human series on the Histrionic Defense Patterns: Ep. #274: To Be Loved Is to Perform: Inside the Histrionic Compulsion for Attention and Validation Start of the Being Human series on the Borderline Defense Pa…","meta_description":"Avoidance looks like not wanting people. It's almost always the opposite: wanting connection so badly that being seen feels like the biggest risk of all.…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1965,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/being-human-1367973/episodes/episode-286-a-mental-tug-of-war-inside-the-avoidant-mind-and-the-burden-of-being-known/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/being-human-1367973/episode-286-a-mental-tug-of-war-inside-the-avoidant-mind-and-the-burden-of-being-known.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}