{"podcast":{"title":"Awesome Marriage Podcast","slug":"awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245","podcast_index_feed_id":1059245,"rss_url":"https://awesomemarriage.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"http://awesomemarriage.com","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/e/a/4/6/ea46d5196b1a4e98d959afa2a1bf1c87/Podcast_3000x3000.jpg","author":"Dr. Kim Kimberling","episode_count":896,"summary":"Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-08T12:21:50.534374+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245"},"episode":{"title":"What If I've Apologized—but My Spouse Still Won't Let It Go? Ep. 743","slug":"what-if-i-ve-apologized-but-my-spouse-still-won-t-let-it-go-ep-743","published_at":"2026-08-11T05:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/what-if-i-ve-apologized-but-my-spouse-still-won-t-let-it-go-ep-743","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245","url":"https://www.awesomemarriage.com","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/awesomemarriage/AM_Podcast_Audio_Solo_August_2026.mp3?dest-id=307718","summary":"Have you ever sincerely apologized to your spouse but felt like you were still paying for the mistake weeks or even months later? Or maybe you're the one carrying a hurt that just won't seem to heal, even though you've chosen to forgive. In this episode, Dr. Kim unpacks the important differences between forgiveness, healing, and trust—and why they don't all happen on the same timeline. He shares practical encouragement for both the spouse who has apologized and the spouse who is still hurting, offering biblical wisdom and realistic next steps for rebuilding trust, extending grace, and moving toward genuine healing together. Episode Takeaways: Forgiveness is a standard and it's a choice. Wounds take time to heal. Trust is rebuilt through behavior, not just an apology. There's a difference between a lingering hurt and using a past hurt as leverage. Don't give up on one another. Let your actions carry the weight! Quotes from this episode: \"You can't control your spouse's healing timeline. You can control whether you're showing up with humility and consistency.\" \"Suppressed pain almost always surfaces later—usually at the worst possible moment and in the worst possible way.\" \"The question isn't whether your spouse has forgiven you. The question might be whether you're giving them the space and time to heal.\" \"Real healing requires honesty, not performance.\" \"They chose honesty over pretending. They chose forgiveness over bitterness. And God honored that.\" Time to Talk About it: When you've been hurt by each other, do we tend to expect forgiveness, healing, and trust to happen at the same pace? How might understanding the difference between those three change the way we respond to one another? Is there an apology from the past that still feels unresolved for either of us? W…","meta_description":"Have you ever sincerely apologized to your spouse but felt like you were still paying for the mistake weeks or even months later? Or maybe you're the one…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1087,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/episodes/what-if-i-ve-apologized-but-my-spouse-still-won-t-let-it-go-ep-743/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/what-if-i-ve-apologized-but-my-spouse-still-won-t-let-it-go-ep-743.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}