{"podcast":{"title":"Awesome Marriage Podcast","slug":"awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245","podcast_index_feed_id":1059245,"rss_url":"https://awesomemarriage.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"http://awesomemarriage.com","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/e/a/4/6/ea46d5196b1a4e98d959afa2a1bf1c87/Podcast_3000x3000.jpg","author":"Dr. Kim Kimberling","episode_count":896,"summary":"Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-08T12:21:50.534374+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245"},"episode":{"title":"The Communication Mistake Most Couples Don't Realize They're Making with Jason Van Ruler Ep. 745","slug":"the-communication-mistake-most-couples-don-t-realize-they-re-making-with-jason-van-ruler-ep-745","published_at":"2026-08-25T05:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/the-communication-mistake-most-couples-don-t-realize-they-re-making-with-jason-van-ruler-ep-745","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245","url":"https://www.awesomemarriage.com","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/awesomemarriage/AM_Podcast_Audio_Jason_Van_Ruler.mp3?dest-id=307718","summary":"Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your spouse thinking, \"That's not what I meant at all\"? Or wondered why you keep having the same argument over and over again? The truth is, most couples aren't struggling because they don't love each other, they're struggling because they communicate differently. In this episode, Dr. Kim is joined by licensed therapist and author Jason Van Ruler to unpack the five communication types and why understanding your spouse's communication style can completely change the way you approach conflict. They talk about why we so often take our differences personally, how stress affects the way we communicate, and why learning to truly listen may be the most powerful thing you can do for your marriage. If you've ever felt misunderstood or wished your spouse \"just got you,\" this conversation will help you replace frustration with understanding and give you practical tools to communicate in a way that brings you closer instead of pushing you apart. Episode Highlights: Why communication breaks down—and why it's probably not for the reason you think. Discover your communication type and learn how it shapes every conversation with your spouse. Simple shifts that will help you feel more seen, heard, and understood in your marriage. Stop taking communication differences personally and start using them to grow closer. Quotes from This Episode: Jason VanRuler \"We aren't very well versed in communicating for connection.\" \"The more we feel we can't communicate, the more we believe the lie that our spouse must like it that way.\" \"We're experts in what we meant, but we're not experts in what our spouse experienced.\" \"Understanding your communication type takes the personal offense out of conflict and helps you ask, 'What did they mean?'\" \"A gre…","meta_description":"Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your spouse thinking, \"That's not what I meant at all\"? Or wondered why you keep having the same argume…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2406,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/episodes/the-communication-mistake-most-couples-don-t-realize-they-re-making-with-jason-van-ruler-ep-745/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/the-communication-mistake-most-couples-don-t-realize-they-re-making-with-jason-van-ruler-ep-745.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}