{"podcast":{"title":"Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz","slug":"authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","podcast_index_feed_id":739023,"rss_url":"https://shrinkfortheshyguy.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/2147501487/images/18e67b-ce6-4704-4e38-1526461667_Podcast_Banner-3000x3000_04.jpg","author":"Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Author","episode_count":641,"summary":"Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doub…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023"},"episode":{"title":"The Voice That Says It Won't Work","slug":"the-voice-that-says-it-won-t-work","published_at":"2026-04-14T16:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/the-voice-that-says-it-won-t-work","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz/episodes/2149192861","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149192861.mp3","summary":"What if the real reason you hold back, soften what you say, or carefully rehearse how you come across isn’t actually about confidence at all? What if, underneath it all, there’s a deeper fear - that if people saw the real you, they simply wouldn’t like you? In this episode, Dr. Aziz explores the hidden fear that quietly drives people-pleasing, overthinking, and the constant effort to present yourself the “right way.” Many people live with an unspoken belief that something about them is fundamentally not enough - like they’ve been dealt a bad hand in life. From that place, it becomes natural to compensate: improving, performing, polishing a persona, and trying to become someone who will finally be accepted. But as Dr. Aziz explains, this strategy creates a painful paradox. When approval comes, it often brings anxiety and imposter syndrome. When it doesn’t, it seems to confirm the belief that something is wrong with you. Either way, the deeper desire we all have - to feel truly seen, known, and connected - remains unfulfilled. Drawing from years of coaching and insights from his Not Nice Live workshop, Dr. Aziz reveals how this pattern forms and why it keeps people stuck in masks and performances instead of authentic connection. He shows that the real path to belonging isn’t through perfecting yourself, but through taking the courageous risk to be more real. You’ll discover why trying to be who you think others want can never create the belonging you crave and how genuine confidence begins to grow when you allow yourself to be seen as the imperfect, evolving human you truly are. Tune in to learn how small, everyday moments of authenticity - sharing a preference, setting a boundary, speaking honestly - can begin to dismantle the fear of rejection and open the door to deep…","meta_description":"What if the real reason you hold back, soften what you say, or carefully rehearse how you come across isn’t actually about confidence at all? 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