{"podcast":{"title":"Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz","slug":"authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","podcast_index_feed_id":739023,"rss_url":"https://shrinkfortheshyguy.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/2147501487/images/18e67b-ce6-4704-4e38-1526461667_Podcast_Banner-3000x3000_04.jpg","author":"Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Author","episode_count":641,"summary":"Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doub…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023"},"episode":{"title":"The Truth About Change In The New Year","slug":"the-truth-about-change-in-the-new-year","published_at":"2026-01-13T16:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/the-truth-about-change-in-the-new-year","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz/episodes/2149150019","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149150019.mp3","summary":"🌟 In this empowering kickoff to 2026, Dr. Aziz challenges a deeply held belief: that being nice means you care more. In fact, the opposite might be true. In this episode, you’ll discover how what looks like “caring” is often fear, over-responsibility, and codependence in disguise. If you’ve been stuck in people-pleasing, constantly saying yes when you want to say no, feeling guilt when others are upset, or believing your worth is tied to keeping everyone happy—this episode is your wake-up call. Dr. Aziz breaks down the emotional trap of chronic niceness and reveals how true caring comes not from fear, but from authenticity and healthy boundaries. 🎧 Ready to stop living for others’ approval and start living as you ? Tune in now and learn how to liberate yourself from the Nice Cage—once and for all.   ----------------------   A couple of weeks into a new year, a quiet question tends to surface—sometimes with excitement, sometimes with dread: Is this year actually going to be different? Not in the hype-driven, “crush your goals” sense. Not in the motivational-poster version of change. But in the places that matter most. In how you feel inside. In how free you feel socially. In whether you finally stop holding back, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like you’re never quite enough—no matter how much you achieve on the outside. That’s the territory we’re stepping into here. Not weight loss. Not business optimization. Not productivity hacks. Those matter, sure—but they’re not my wheelhouse. What I help people change is something deeper: social confidence, emotional freedom, the ability to be fully yourself without fear, apology, or chronic self-monitoring. And the truth is, most people don’t fail to change because they lack desire. They fail because they’re choos…","meta_description":"🌟 In this empowering kickoff to 2026, Dr. Aziz challenges a deeply held belief: that being nice means you care more. 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