{"podcast":{"title":"Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz","slug":"authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","podcast_index_feed_id":739023,"rss_url":"https://shrinkfortheshyguy.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/2147501487/images/18e67b-ce6-4704-4e38-1526461667_Podcast_Banner-3000x3000_04.jpg","author":"Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Author","episode_count":641,"summary":"Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doub…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023"},"episode":{"title":"The Moment You Start Managing Yourself","slug":"the-moment-you-start-managing-yourself","published_at":"2026-03-17T16:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/the-moment-you-start-managing-yourself","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz/episodes/2149180881","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149180881.mp3","summary":"In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy , Dr. Aziz explores what happens the moment you stop being natural in a conversation and start managing yourself instead . If you’ve ever felt yourself drift into performance mode—monitoring your words, second-guessing how you sound, and trying to control how you’re coming across—this episode will help you understand exactly why that happens. Dr. Aziz breaks down how social anxiety can turn conversations into a subtle form of self-surveillance, where your attention leaves the present moment and gets trapped in self-criticism, overthinking, and trying to “perform” the right version of yourself. You’ll discover why this pattern makes it harder to know what to say, harder to connect, and harder to feel truly seen and known by others. This episode is a powerful invitation to recognize performance mode for what it is: not your personality, but a fear response. And once you can see it clearly, you can begin to choose something different. 🎧 Tune in now to learn how to spot self-managing in real time—and take the first step back to being fully, naturally you.","meta_description":"In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy , Dr. Aziz explores what happens the moment you stop being natural in a conversation and start managing yourself…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1063,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/episodes/the-moment-you-start-managing-yourself/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/the-moment-you-start-managing-yourself.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}