{"podcast":{"title":"Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz","slug":"authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","podcast_index_feed_id":739023,"rss_url":"https://shrinkfortheshyguy.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/2147501487/images/18e67b-ce6-4704-4e38-1526461667_Podcast_Banner-3000x3000_04.jpg","author":"Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Author","episode_count":641,"summary":"Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doub…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023"},"episode":{"title":"Do You Feel Like You Belong?","slug":"do-you-feel-like-you-belong","published_at":"2026-04-21T16:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/do-you-feel-like-you-belong","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023","url":"https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz/episodes/2149199176","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149199176.mp3","summary":"Do you ever feel like you’ve done years of \"work\" on yourself, only to wake up and find you're facing the exact same fear, hesitation, or self-doubt you thought you’d finally conquered? In this episode, Dr. Aziz digs into the frustrating reality of why our core struggles seem to have a \"boomerang\" effect. We often spend our energy pruning the leaves of our problems—fixing surface-level habits or social techniques—while leaving the deep root system of our identity completely untouched. This hidden psychological architecture is often designed to keep you safe by keeping you small, effectively pulling you back into familiar patterns the moment you try to expand. If you feel like you’re running in circles, it’s not because you’re failing; it’s because your nervous system is still prioritizing protection over power. Dr. Aziz reveals how to identify the hidden \"safety payoff\" of your recurring struggle and how to fundamentally rewrite the inner rules that keep these patterns alive. Learn how to stop treating the symptoms and start transforming the source so you can finally move forward without being pulled back.  ","meta_description":"Do you ever feel like you’ve done years of \"work\" on yourself, only to wake up and find you're facing the exact same fear, hesitation, or self-doubt you t…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1008,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/episodes/do-you-feel-like-you-belong/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-confidence-with-dr-aziz-739023/do-you-feel-like-you-belong.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}