{"podcast":{"title":"Ask Christopher West","slug":"ask-christopher-west-240572","podcast_index_feed_id":240572,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10343b5d0/podcast/rss","website_url":"http://askchristopherwest.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/43397364/43397364-1769628946857-91bb7fb83372e.jpg","author":"Theology of the Body Institute","episode_count":394,"summary":"Since the early 90's, author and speaker Christopher West has devoted his life to spreading John Paul II's revolutionary teaching on human life, love, and sexuality: The Theology of the Body. His beloved wife Wendy, mother of their five children, has served as his confidante, friend, and support through these long years of ministry. In this podcast, Christopher and Wendy combine their wisdom to tackle the toughest questions dealing with vocation, sexuality, marriage, and the Catholic faith.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-13T16:20:14.046390+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572"},"episode":{"title":"Is JPII contradicting St. Paul on spousal authority?, Teaching TOB when church leaders resist, and My vasectomy haunts my marriage | ACW365","slug":"is-jpii-contradicting-st-paul-on-spousal-authority-teaching-tob-when-church-leaders-resist-and-my-vasectomy-haunts-my-marriage-acw365","published_at":"2025-12-29T08:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572/is-jpii-contradicting-st-paul-on-spousal-authority-teaching-tob-when-church-leaders-resist-and-my-vasectomy-haunts-my-marriage-acw365","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/juan-arregun5/episodes/Is-JPII-contradicting-St--Paul-on-spousal-authority---Teaching-TOB-when-church-leaders-resist--and-My-vasectomy-haunts-my-marriage--ACW365-e3cf2n0","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10343b5d0/podcast/play/112740512/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-16%2F0f75583d-8b27-1aa3-6be3-8976b687204c.mp3","summary":"–This episode is sponsored by Truthly– Questions answered this episode: St. John Paul talks about woman being master of her own mystery—how a man must stand at the door and knock, then wait for her to open, even in marriage, respecting her right to reject his advances to the marital embrace. In light of this, how do we understand 1 Corinthians 7:4–5 (“the wife does not rule over her own body… Do not refuse one another except perhaps by agreement…”)? What does this mean? It seems to contradict JP2. I’ve also heard it used against NFP—how can I understand it in light of TOB and the Church’s teaching? How do you handle sharing Theology of the Body in the current context, where our own leaders in the Church seem to more and more embrace the way of the world? Can you give advice on ways to share and teach the TOB message within our own diocese in this context—especially when facing barriers from our own priests and bishops? I’m a happily married man in my early 60s. I had a vasectomy in my 20s after our third child, became Catholic in my 50s, and deeply regretted what I’d done to my body. I’ve gathered that when I make love to my wife it isn’t considered a truly marital act because my body is in a contraceptive state—even though she’s past menopause and cannot conceive. I’ve considered reversal, but I can’t afford it and I’m told it’s unlikely to work at my age; my non-Catholic wife isn’t supportive. Have you any consoling thoughts? Resources: Colorado Ski Retreat with Christopher Good News About Sex & Marriage If you are in financial need and honestly cannot afford a book or resource recommended on this podcast, contact: ⁠⁠michele@tobinstitute.org⁠⁠ Donate to the JPII Legacy Foundation JPII Legacy Foundation Website --- Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which…","meta_description":"–This episode is sponsored by Truthly– Questions answered this episode: St. John Paul talks about woman being master of her own mystery—how a man must sta…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2962,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ask-christopher-west-240572/episodes/is-jpii-contradicting-st-paul-on-spousal-authority-teaching-tob-when-church-leaders-resist-and-my-vasectomy-haunts-my-marriage-acw365/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572/is-jpii-contradicting-st-paul-on-spousal-authority-teaching-tob-when-church-leaders-resist-and-my-vasectomy-haunts-my-marriage-acw365.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}