{"podcast":{"title":"Arrows and Acres","slug":"arrows-and-acres-7836536","podcast_index_feed_id":7836536,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hXuRTogI.rss","website_url":"https://arrowsandacres.com/","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/6aad5509-daa5-4e4c-81ec-13c69ab359fb/logos/e7bb5f9e-bd84-4326-a10d-aa62dcf029d1.png","author":"Arrows and Acres","episode_count":23,"summary":"Arrows & Acres Podcast Hosted by Daniel & Allison Hartman A podcast for Christian parents who are done raising children who can't function, and ready to raise adults who fear God, carry their own weight, and change the world. Most families are just surviving. Arrows & Acres is for the ones who want something more. Daniel and Allison Hartman are a husband and wife raising a large family on Florida's Gulf Coast — homeschooling, homesteading, running a family business, and doing all of it on purpose. This podcast is the conversation they're having at the kitchen table, in the truck, and at the end of a long day — and now they're pulling up a chair for you. They're not here to motivate you. They're here to challenge you. Every episode cuts into the real stuff: what it actually takes to raise children who become capable, godly adults. How to protect your family's attention in a world designed to steal it. What biblical manhood and womanhood look like when you strip away the cultural noise. How to build something together as a family — a business, a homestead, a legacy — without handing your life over to debt or a schedule someone else controls. What it means to disciple your children n…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T00:21:27.284478+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536"},"episode":{"title":"When Your Spouse Is Not on the Same Page (Ep 21)","slug":"when-your-spouse-is-not-on-the-same-page-ep-21","published_at":"2026-08-26T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536/when-your-spouse-is-not-on-the-same-page-ep-21","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c11d37a8fc4fa4fde9eb9f68749871fa0f7b2c0217131f2d778c5315b7944c72/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzYTAwMDJiNy0wN2UyLTQ5OWMtYTU0Mi02ZWRjNTQ2NjBjOWEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4ZTAyNzgxZjIxMzNjYWVhYmJhZmE3L3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0yNV9fMjMtMC00MC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c11d37a8fc4fa4fde9eb9f68749871fa0f7b2c0217131f2d778c5315b7944c72/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzYTAwMDJiNy0wN2UyLTQ5OWMtYTU0Mi02ZWRjNTQ2NjBjOWEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4ZTAyNzgxZjIxMzNjYWVhYmJhZmE3L3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0yNV9fMjMtMC00MC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"Most of you are here because your husband isn’t with you on this. Daniel and Allison know that, because they hear from you every week. In this episode they walk through the three situations wives actually live in: the husband who isn’t a believer, the husband who is saved but passive, and the husband who loves the Lord but genuinely disagrees with the direction. Each one requires a different response. All three are grounded in what scripture actually says, not what feels fair. You’ll hear why nagging is not a strategy, what 1 Peter 3 is actually asking of you, how Proverbs is a book of wisdom not judgment, what it means to pick your battles versus giving ground that matters, and what it looks like to build your house rather than tear it down with your own hands. This is not a “both sides” episode. It is a conviction-forward conversation about the structure God gave the home, what headship and submission actually mean in practice, and why the wife who leads by her conduct wins more ground than the one who leads by her words. Allison is honest here: Daniel and she don’t agree on everything. But they agree on the biggies. And she is deeply sympathetic to the mom who doesn’t have that. That sympathy shows up in this episode as practical, biblical wisdom, not soft consolation. Gulf Coast Family Camp: GulfCoastFamilyCamp.com The Forge: arrowsandacres.com/the-forge","meta_description":"Most of you are here because your husband isn’t with you on this. Daniel and Allison know that, because they hear from you every week. 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