{"podcast":{"title":"Arrows and Acres","slug":"arrows-and-acres-7836536","podcast_index_feed_id":7836536,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hXuRTogI.rss","website_url":"https://arrowsandacres.com/","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/6aad5509-daa5-4e4c-81ec-13c69ab359fb/logos/e7bb5f9e-bd84-4326-a10d-aa62dcf029d1.png","author":"Arrows and Acres","episode_count":23,"summary":"Arrows & Acres Podcast Hosted by Daniel & Allison Hartman A podcast for Christian parents who are done raising children who can't function, and ready to raise adults who fear God, carry their own weight, and change the world. Most families are just surviving. Arrows & Acres is for the ones who want something more. Daniel and Allison Hartman are a husband and wife raising a large family on Florida's Gulf Coast — homeschooling, homesteading, running a family business, and doing all of it on purpose. This podcast is the conversation they're having at the kitchen table, in the truck, and at the end of a long day — and now they're pulling up a chair for you. They're not here to motivate you. They're here to challenge you. Every episode cuts into the real stuff: what it actually takes to raise children who become capable, godly adults. How to protect your family's attention in a world designed to steal it. What biblical manhood and womanhood look like when you strip away the cultural noise. How to build something together as a family — a business, a homestead, a legacy — without handing your life over to debt or a schedule someone else controls. What it means to disciple your children n…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T00:21:27.284478+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536"},"episode":{"title":"Is Your Family Dangerous, or Just Difficult? (Ep 20)","slug":"is-your-family-dangerous-or-just-difficult-ep-20","published_at":"2026-08-19T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536/is-your-family-dangerous-or-just-difficult-ep-20","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/197f7601fe09d3cb8f9a8e31c23c35cc5f3add947079e77bca2843f5b9104e2b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjOTQ0ZGE2Ny00OGM3LTQ1Y2MtYWE5ZS0yNWM2OTNhYWZiNzYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4NDVmZmUzZTQyMzdmMmYzYWI0ZTkwL3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0xOF9fMTUtMzctMi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/197f7601fe09d3cb8f9a8e31c23c35cc5f3add947079e77bca2843f5b9104e2b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjOTQ0ZGE2Ny00OGM3LTQ1Y2MtYWE5ZS0yNWM2OTNhYWZiNzYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4NDVmZmUzZTQyMzdmMmYzYWI0ZTkwL3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0xOF9fMTUtMzctMi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"Twenty-seven percent of American adults have cut off contact with a family member. That is roughly 67 million people, and the Cornell researcher behind the number says his own figure is low because people would not admit it on the survey. Daniel and Allison Hartman sit down with Randy Schrum for a longer conversation than usual, because this one earned it. Between the two of them they can name five to ten families living this right now. Not families of the world. Christian families. Parents with an empty chair at the table and no idea what they did. This episode walks through seven words a generation has been handed, what each one actually means, and what it is being used to do. Disagreement has become harm. Correction has become injury. Responsibility given to a child at three or four years old, which a twenty year University of Minnesota study found to be the single best predictor of success in a person's mid twenties, now gets labeled as damage. There is real abuse in this world, and cutting off contact is sometimes necessary. That is not most of these cases. Most of these cases are a generation trained to name normal parenting as injury and to call walking away the cure. Scripture has a different answer. Forgiveness. Reconciliation. Conflict that sharpens instead of severs. Share this one with a mother who is parenting out of fear of losing her child. Join the tribe inside The Forge at ArrowsAndAcres.com .","meta_description":"Twenty-seven percent of American adults have cut off contact with a family member. 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