{"podcast":{"title":"Arrows and Acres","slug":"arrows-and-acres-7836536","podcast_index_feed_id":7836536,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hXuRTogI.rss","website_url":"https://arrowsandacres.com/","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/6aad5509-daa5-4e4c-81ec-13c69ab359fb/logos/e7bb5f9e-bd84-4326-a10d-aa62dcf029d1.png","author":"Arrows and Acres","episode_count":13,"summary":"Arrows & Acres Podcast Hosted by Daniel & Allison Hartman A podcast for Christian parents who are done raising children who can't function, and ready to raise adults who fear God, carry their own weight, and change the world. Most families are just surviving. Arrows & Acres is for the ones who want something more. Daniel and Allison Hartman are a husband and wife raising a large family on Florida's Gulf Coast — homeschooling, homesteading, running a family business, and doing all of it on purpose. This podcast is the conversation they're having at the kitchen table, in the truck, and at the end of a long day — and now they're pulling up a chair for you. They're not here to motivate you. They're here to challenge you. Every episode cuts into the real stuff: what it actually takes to raise children who become capable, godly adults. How to protect your family's attention in a world designed to steal it. What biblical manhood and womanhood look like when you strip away the cultural noise. How to build something together as a family — a business, a homestead, a legacy — without handing your life over to debt or a schedule someone else controls. What it means to disciple your children n…","last_synced_at":"2026-07-02T00:17:23.822796+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536"},"episode":{"title":"Authority Isn't a Dirty Word (Ep 5)","slug":"authority-isn-t-a-dirty-word-ep-5","published_at":"2026-05-06T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536/authority-isn-t-a-dirty-word-ep-5","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c98ed765bfe8cf276a5e91f7b8bf733f78e6891dc6e743c11926276796498fe2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhODJhNzMxMy02YWFmLTQ4M2YtOWRkNC02YTJmMzE3OTNmY2QiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlmN2Q4MTJmN2FkNTA0ZjYwZTYxNzczL3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNS00X18xLTE5LTQ2Lm1wMyJ9.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c98ed765bfe8cf276a5e91f7b8bf733f78e6891dc6e743c11926276796498fe2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhODJhNzMxMy02YWFmLTQ4M2YtOWRkNC02YTJmMzE3OTNmY2QiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2YWFkNTUwOS1kYWE1LTRlNGMtODFlYy0xM2M2OWFiMzU5ZmIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWJlY2Y5OTMwZGYyMjg3MzhiMzJhNjIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlmN2Q4MTJmN2FkNTA0ZjYwZTYxNzczL3JhbmR5LXNjaHJ1bXMtc3R1ZGlvLURsWlVHLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNS00X18xLTE5LTQ2Lm1wMyJ9.mp3","summary":"Authority has been turned into a trigger word — patriarchy, oppression, control, “toxic.” Modern culture has spent decades feminizing fathers, ridiculing the dad on every sitcom, and convincing a generation of parents that the loving thing to do is back off, soft-pedal the rules, and “gentle parent” their children into chaos. In this episode, Daniel and Allison Hartman make the case that the absence of biblical authority in the home isn’t kindness — it’s cruelty. Children aren’t rebelling against rules. They’re rebelling against rules without relationship. They’re rebelling against hypocrisy. They’re rebelling against parents who lay down the law from a recliner instead of laying down their lives. DANIEL AND ALLISON UNPACK: Why “rules without relationship lead to rebellion” — and what that actually looks like in the home The two destructive extremes wrecking families right now: heavy-handed authoritarianism and “gentle parenting” with no spine How biblical authority is built on hours clocked, not titles claimed The “no contact” movement seeping into churches — and how youth pastors are validating kids out of their own families Why authority modeled in the marriage is the foundation everything else stands on The Malachi 4 promise: the hearts of fathers turning to their children, or the whole world falls under a curse This isn’t theory. It’s eleven children, twenty-eight years of marriage, married kids who choose to be at the family dinner table almost every night, and a son-in-law who told them, “I didn’t expect you to be the kind of mother-in-law you are — I just want to be around you guys.” Authority done God’s way doesn’t push your children away. It draws them in for life. 📜 Get our FREE manifesto, Raise Adults, Not Children: ⁣ https://arrowsandacres.kit.com/manifest…","meta_description":"Authority has been turned into a trigger word — patriarchy, oppression, control, “toxic.” Modern culture has spent decades feminizing fathers, ridiculing…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2982,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/arrows-and-acres-7836536/episodes/authority-isn-t-a-dirty-word-ep-5/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/arrows-and-acres-7836536/authority-isn-t-a-dirty-word-ep-5.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}