{"podcast":{"title":"Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships","slug":"anger-secrets-5809386","podcast_index_feed_id":5809386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/angersecrets/","website_url":"https://angersecrets.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/d1249324-2922-4a6d-8daa-211abc55b7ed/Anger-Secrets-Podcast-Cover-copy.jpg","author":"Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert","episode_count":204,"summary":"Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here to help you do. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, Anger Secrets is an anger management podcast that helps you understand why anger keeps coming back, how to control anger before it controls you, and how to repair the damage anger can cause in relationships and family life. Each episode explores practical strategies for anger control, emotional regulation, communication and conflict resolution, anger triggers, relationship conflict, parenting challenges and rebuilding trust after anger has damaged important relationships. You'll learn how to stop losing your temper, stay calm under pressure…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T02:17:32.529951+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386"},"episode":{"title":"194 - The One Skill That Stops You Snapping at the People You Love","slug":"194-the-one-skill-that-stops-you-snapping-at-the-people-you-love","published_at":"2026-07-19T00:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/194-the-one-skill-that-stops-you-snapping-at-the-people-you-love","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386","url":"https://angersecrets.com/podcast/ep-194-the-one-skill-that-stops-you-snapping-at-the-people-you-love","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/41962989-f2bf-4d8c-956f-b7ba32b97c23.mp3","summary":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Why do so many people lose their temper before they even realise they're angry? The answer isn't a lack of willpower. It's a lack of awareness. If you can't see anger building, you can't stop it before it damages your relationships. In this episode, Alastair explains why self-awareness is the foundation of effective anger management and emotional control. Most people don't catch their anger until they're already raising their voice, shutting down or saying something they regret. By then, the emotional part of the brain has taken over and the damage is already happening. You'll learn the three core skills that help you recognise anger before it escalates. First, how to identify your personal early warning signs of anger, including physical changes in your body that appear before an outburst. Second, how to slow down your reactions and create enough space to choose your response instead of automatically reacting. And third, how to identify the anger triggers that repeatedly pull you into the same frustrating patterns with your spouse, children or other important people in your life. If you've ever wondered why anger seems to happen so fast, or why you keep snapping at the people you love despite your best intentions, this episode will help you understand what's really happening and how to change it. Self-awareness isn't just another anger management technique. It's the skill that makes every other technique possible. Anger Secrets is the podcast for men and women who want lasting anger management solutions and healthier relationships. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System, each episode explores anger control, emotional regulation, communication skills, and pract…","meta_description":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . 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