{"podcast":{"title":"Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships","slug":"anger-secrets-5809386","podcast_index_feed_id":5809386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/angersecrets/","website_url":"https://angersecrets.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/d1249324-2922-4a6d-8daa-211abc55b7ed/Anger-Secrets-Podcast-Cover-copy.jpg","author":"Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert","episode_count":204,"summary":"Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here to help you do. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, Anger Secrets is an anger management podcast that helps you understand why anger keeps coming back, how to control anger before it controls you, and how to repair the damage anger can cause in relationships and family life. Each episode explores practical strategies for anger control, emotional regulation, communication and conflict resolution, anger triggers, relationship conflict, parenting challenges and rebuilding trust after anger has damaged important relationships. You'll learn how to stop losing your temper, stay calm under pressure…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T02:17:32.529951+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386"},"episode":{"title":"190 - The Split Second That Saves Your Marriage","slug":"190-the-split-second-that-saves-your-marriage","published_at":"2026-06-21T00:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/190-the-split-second-that-saves-your-marriage","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386","url":"https://angersecrets.com/podcast/190-the-split-second-that-saves-your-marriage","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/0d01ad0f-eca5-47ee-a3c0-2ba97d3a13df.mp3","summary":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Most people think anger arrives out of nowhere. One moment you're discussing something ordinary with your partner or family, and the next, you're shouting, regretting what you said and wondering how it happened. The truth is that anger doesn't take over instantly. There's a split second before the blowup where everything can go differently. In this episode, you'll learn three simple strategies to help you stay calm under pressure and stop losing your temper before it damages the relationships that matter most. You'll discover how to recognize your early warning signs of anger, ask a powerful question that interrupts the anger cycle and shift from defensiveness to curiosity when conflict starts to build. Through real client stories and practical examples, Alastair explains why anger always leaves clues before it explodes and how learning to notice those clues can transform your marriage, family life, and closest relationships. These are simple tools, but when practiced consistently, they can help you respond with greater emotional control and create calmer, healthier conversations at home. Anger Secrets is the podcast for men and women who want lasting anger management solutions and better relationships. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System, each episode explores anger control, emotional regulation, communication and the skills needed to build calmer, happier and more connected lives. Your Next Step: Visit angersecrets.com Learn more about The Complete Anger Management System Access the free training on \"Breaking The Anger Cycle\" Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call","meta_description":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Most people think anger arrives out of nowhere. One moment you're discussing s…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":663,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/anger-secrets-5809386/episodes/190-the-split-second-that-saves-your-marriage/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/190-the-split-second-that-saves-your-marriage.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}